Boring is overrated. With four kids around, I never have to worry about getting bored. There's always plenty to do and I love that. Don't know how to sit still? Have some kids and they'll keep you entertained, for sure. Whether it's a game of hide and seek, having family movie night, or even chasing around the mischievous one, there's always something to keep me going.
Ditch the eery silence! Some people might like a quiet house but I find that quite unnerving. I love the fact that my house will never ever be quiet during waking hours. My kids see to that for me without even trying. There's no such thing as calling the Ghostbusters around here. It's too loud for that. What ghost in its right mind would even dare to take a step in this house?
More kids means less money on clothing. Say what? Kids grow so fast that one barely has time to wear an outfit before it gets handed to the next. Sure, each kid does get their own new things. But it's nice to know that most items will get their fair use in before donating them to the local shelter.
I don't need the T.V. For background noise. I've never been a fan of television, unless the NBA is on. So it's a good thing I have lots of kids. They provide plenty of background noise during my day-to-day tasks and I love it because it helps me get my work done.
I can have a fancy dinner every night. Who needs to go out to eat when you have a bunch of little chefs in training around? My kids and I take turns cooking and sometimes we all cook together. Every night is gourmet when the food is made with love.
No one wants to come disturb me while I'm working. I work at home, which means I prefer no company during certain hours. Having a house full of kids remedies that situation. Everyone knows that if they come over, I am not going to ditch my kids. So many just avoid me altogether. We love it because it means I have more time to work and the kids have extra time to learn.
In-house hair stylists keep me well-groomed. There's no need to go to a fancy salon when I have three girls in the house. OK, so I let my son in on the fun, too. Shh, don't tell dad! I think my kids have more fashion sense than the 'professionals' these days, anyway.
Last-minute parties are all the rage! We have enough people to throw a decent party without even making a phone call. We can just throw together some homemade pizza, pop some popcorn, pop in some music, and pull out the board games, and we're good to go.
Everything I do is amazing! At least that's how the younger kids see it, anyway. Mommy is a magic miracle worker who can make anything happen. When's the last time your boss thought you were as awesome as Santa?....never? Yeah, I thought so. I love having lots of people in my house who think I'm the most amazing creation ever - and guess what? I think they are too!
There's never a shortage of love. Having a bad day? Try hugging a kid and watch how quickly those troubles melt away. Each time I see one of the kids smile or hand me one of their latest crafty creations, the worries I have disappear in a flash. Love is the cure for everything and when you have four kids around, there's plenty of it.
*This article was previously published on Yahoo! Shine, where Lyn Lomasi is a Parenting Guru
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29 Comments
Post a CommentI have 5 boys! 1 in college, 2 are seniors in high school, 1 is a sophmore in high school & another is homeschooled (elementary) 1 senior & the homeschooled kid are special needs. I have all these boys & a seriously co-dependant dog & I wouldn't have it any other way. Even my special needs sons are perfect!!! Glad there's other mom's out there like me 'cause people think I'm insane. Enjoy every second. I miss the young ages when they thought I was the greatest thing in the world & loved my silly games & crafts.
There is no question of the awesome nature of the woman and mom you are.
I have five kids, and three of them are grown now. I miss having my entire family together. Enjoy them all while you can. Someday they'll leave the nest and you'll feel the same way. You're obviously a loving, caring mom. :)
Cute- love your spin on the chaos as a good thing! It's refreshing!
This made me smile! Thanks!
Great article! I love having kids around and I love homeschooling too!
It sounds like there's lot of fun and laughter in your household. Lyn!
Sophie
It sounds like you are a great mom!
Your kids are very fortunate to have you as their mommy :) good job!
C'mon Lyn! Even the Huxtables got tired of their kids now and then. Lol .........