10 Signs Your Girlfriend Does Not Care

If she never wants to do what you want to do that is a very apparent signal that she does not care about your interests. There are two people in a relationship and even though you may think she deserves to be spoiled she should still take into consideration your desires and pleasures in life, not just her own. Otherwise, you will be miserable and she knows that. If she cares about you being happy with her then she should more than gladly show some interest in what you like.

2. She always expects you to pay and would never dream of offering even just to be courteous.

I know some of you may believe that a man should pay for the majority of evenings out together and should be the classic "provider" for the woman but if you have a vast amount of expenses (i.e. car payment, rent, loans, etc.) and she frequently insists for you take her out for highly priced dinners as well as to lavish lounges and she is aware of your mediocre financial status then you got a major problem. One, you definitely will not have too much money saved up for your future and will probably begin to struggle with your expense payments. Two, if she only wants to go out to expensive places then she really does not care about you and is only interested in getting what she desires. In addition, even though you can afford to pay for the two of you and would never allow her to pay she should at least offer once in a while as a sign of courtesy and acknowledgment of what you have been providing to her. If she does not demonstrate some recognition for your generosity then she is selfish and inconsiderate.

3. She frequently cancels plans to see you because she habitually puts her friends before you.

I comprehend that you have to allow your partner to "breathe" and letting her go out with her friends and you going out with yours is positive and healthy for any relationship. It reduces the tension, increases contentment, and maintains one's sanity. However, if you made plans to see her weeks or days before and she has canceled a couple weekends per month to see her friends that she speaks to frequently then there is an issue at hand that must be dealt with quickly. You have to ask yourself, if I needed help from her would she be there and alter her schedule just for me? If the answer is No, then she obviously just does not care. She must understand that it is just plain wrong to always put her counterpart secondary to everything else in her life. She should be there for you just as much as you have for her.

4. She never wants to listen to what you have to say unless it is in her favor or interest.

Have you ever noticed that when you choose a topic of discussion and initiate the conversation that she will continually interrupt with comments not relating to the subject spoken of or you witness that bored expression on her face illustrating she is just not paying attention at all? Well, I certainly have. If this occurs, it should be a strong indication that she does not find you fascinating nor does she think that she can gain anything significant from your thoughts or opinions. If she does not respect your opinions then she does not respect you, which exhibits her lack of interest and thought of you as an equal in the relationship. A considerate girlfriend would be attentive and at least feign some interest even if you frequently provide boring ramblings on odd topics.

5. She rarely shows you affection.

Signs of affection symbolize love and care. Actions such as holding your hand, kisses, gazing deeply into your eyes and flirtatious mannerisms such as smiling and glances over towards you at random moments are all indications of care and signals she is thinking of you. Other signs of affection that are more apparent are gifts, home cooked meals, compliments and often being physically close to one another. If your girlfriend does not execute any of these gestures towards you chances are that she really does not care for you and it is time for you to move on buddy.

6.The two of you are rarely intimate and she always uses the excuse that she is too tired.

There are times that she is too tired to be intimate due to work and other things in her day that can be conflicting which is understandable. However, if this happens too often to a point where you have not been intimate at all for more than a week then you should consider this a problem needed to be repaired. For clarification, intimacy does not only suggest intercourse but it also represents cuddling, "spooning", passionate kissing and touching. If your girlfriend rarely does any of this, a red flag should be raised in your mind and I suggest beginning to contemplate a way of escape from this loveless relationship. If she cared as much as she claimed, she would show some interest and be attracted to you.

7. She forgets about things you have said or done for her.

Even if she has a bad memory, I am certain that there are particular things that she feels is significant and stand out in her mind. If what you say and the things you do for her are not one of these things that she recollects then one must begin to question her intentions. Ask yourself, is she just using me or does she really care? In all honesty, if she forgets about you easily and frequently the answer is simply, No. A caring girlfriend would at the least remember the sweet things you do for her and show some appreciation. Acknowledging the efforts you both put forth is very important in a relationship and if it only comes from one party and is not reciprocated then the relationship will not work well together.

8. She demonstrates that she is better than you physically & in regards to social status.

If she always speaks freely and highly of her many close friends but never introduces you to her social circle or rarely invites you to join her with them, then it is because she feels that you are not on an equitable social level and that you are indeed below her. If she always makes negative statements in regards to your looks and makes open suggestions on how to improve yourself physically then she is not happy with the way you appear. It is understandable if she only does this once in a while and makes these requests in a suitable manner. Meaning, she approaches and tells you in a respectful, careful, and nice way so as to not hurt your feelings. However, if she constantly makes malicious and condescending comments about your appearance and never speaks of her own flaws then she probably thinks she is perfect and too good for you. At this point, you should strongly consider saving your self-esteem and leaving this woman.

9. She thinks she is smarter than you and that you have nothing to offer intellectually.

Well this should be apparent if she just flat out tells you that you are stupid or dumb. However, if not, you should be able to recognize that she feels this way if she always thinks she is right, never listens to what you have to say, constantly disagrees with you, only views things under her own perspective, and tells you, "You wouldn't understand." If I just described your present girlfriend I am sorry but she really does not care.

10. She frequently talks about your money.

Try to remember when the two of you just started dating. Did she ever ask you in detail about your career? Did she ask you how much you make? Was she concerned about whether or not you had enough to spend because she said she just did not want to have to worry about it when the two of you went out? Does she ask you how much your salary is going to increase or if you are planning on moving on to a higher end position at work? If the answer is 'Yes' to the majority of these questions, then you just got yourself a certified "gold digger." Start packing up your bags because it is time to flee and check up on your bank account.

If you recognize any of these signs in your girlfriend then I must suggest that you take a moment to reflect on your relationship and think about how you feel about her. Try to recognize these symptoms and do not be blinded by lies and deceit. You must be your own person and have some control on your life, relationship and the love you seek.