10 Ways to Tell If a Guy Has Romantic Interest in You

Does He Really Love You?

Sean Hein
After you've had several dates with the same guy, you naturally want to know if you've made a good impression. You may feel like you're clicking but are afraid to assume too much.

How can you tell if the relationship is going as well as you think it is. Men behave in certain ways when they are into a woman.

These behaviors can only mean one thing: He really IS that into you. Look for these certain things to be certain that your feelings are being reciprocated. But if you see none of these things, time to call off the wedding.

Learn as you go-here are 10 ways to tell:

1-He calls you the morning after a date. Or even better, he calls you when he gets home just to tell you he enjoyed your company, is sorry the date is over and wants to see you again. If he spends more than 10 minutes on the phone with you, he's really into you.

2-When he sees you again, he's there on time. One habit I find reeks of disrespect is tardiness. If a guy shows up late, he can't be all that worried about your feelings, but if he's there right at the stroke of seven like he promised, he's really into you.

3-You're talking. He's listening. He can actually repeat back to you what you just said about your annoying cousin Felix. He remembers you hate pickles on your burger and that your cat's name is Elvis. If he wants to hear what you have to say and doesn't tune you out to listen for football scores being uttered in a restaurant, he's really into you.

4-He tells you he doesn't want you to see other people. When he wants to have an exclusive relationship in addition to calling, showing up on time, listening to your dumb stories, he's really into you.

5-He wants to meet your friends. This is a big step. A guy knows that your friends are the barometer by which you judge your date. When he's confident that he's going to pass all the scrutiny from your pals with flying colors, he's really into you.

6- He wants you to meet his friends. This is an even bigger step than meeting your friends. His friends are already making fun of him because he's dated you eight times in a row. Now he's willing to bring you around so they can humiliate him right in front of you. When a man is ready for that type of punishment from his own friends, he's really into you.

7-He goes to chick flicks with you and enjoys there because he's in your company. If your guy goes with you to see Sex And The City for the fifth time and remembers that Miranda is the attorney and Samantha is the human sushi because you get a kick out of it, he's really into you.

8-When the relationship get physical, not only does he not jump out of your bed the minute the fun is over, or doesn't shove your dress in your hand and shove you out the door yelling "gotta big day at work tomorrow, but sticks around to cuddle and coo until you fall asleep in the spoon formation, he's really into you.

9-He lets you drive his car. Alone. Without making you leave a $10,000 deposit with him before you go. A man's car is usually his pride and joy and to let you drive off without him in it is a very clear indication that he's really into you.

10-If you've gotten this far and you're still not convinced of his feelings for you, you will be clear when he hands over the key to his apartment to you. This is the precursor to domestic bliss. He may even clear out a spot on the toothbrush holder for you. If you have a key and your own toothpaste at his place, there can be no doubt that he is really into you.

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  • Leigh9/25/2008

    Great Article! Thanks, I enjoyed reading this!

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