13 Unnecessary Questions a Man Should Never Ask His Partner on a First Date

Robenson Louis
You might think that all your questions should be welcome on a first date since you are in America, the land of freedom, I would say, "Hold on a second." You should only bring to the table noncontroversial topics. Therefore, it is unwise to ask your partner the following unnecessary questions on a first date.

1. Are you a virgin?

You can actually have the correct answer to this question without being vulgar. Anyway, it would be inappropriate to ask your partner about her virginity even for religious purpose. We all have our missteps, our misdeeds which we would have done right today if we were to do it all again.

2. You appear to be older than me, are you?

Why would you ask a lady for her age on a first date? Should you ask this question at all? I firmly believe that your partner's age does not matter.

3. How much money do you make?

"Material guys" need to know who they are dealing with financially. However, they should know that that question is sensitive, and the answer is personal.

4. What's your credit score?

Asking this question would be suspicious unless your partner is applying for a mortgage loan. If that is the case, just provide her with an application to fill out instead of verbally formulating this question on a date.

5. What was wrong with your ex-boyfriends?

Did she tell you about her ex-partners? No matter what happened, they belong to the past. Try to focus your attention on the future.

6. What is your sexual orientation?

Since you are meeting a woman, a question about her sexual orientation would be incongruous.

7. Are you a U.S. Citizen?

Are you looking for a U.S. Citizen to legally apply for a green card on your behalf? If yes, a first date would be the wrong time to ask this question; if no, why would you ask it?

8. Are you working in the medical field?

"What are you doing for living?" would be the appropriate question to ask your partner. Asking this specific question for no apparent reasons would be questionable.

9. Are you concerned about you weight?

Never call a woman FIU, meaning Fat, Ignorant, and Ugly. Raising concern about her weight will put you in trouble.

10. How far would you go on a first date?

This would be the most disrespectful questions you can ask your partner. Deciding to cancel the date would be the best answer.

11. Are you generous?

Are you running a charitable organization? If yes, talk to her about it without asking for help. You can answer that question depending on her commitment to your cause. If no, keep you mouth shut if you do have nothing else to say.

12. How are you dealing with cheaters and liars?

Let cheaters and a liars ask that question.

13. What is your party affiliation?

Even candidates do not ask that question

Remember to always show respect to your partner by treating her like a princess.

Published by Robenson Louis

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  • Amy Ess8/22/2010

    Oh god these are very personal. Good points!

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