20 Ways to Make Your Wife Happy

Here is a list of ways, you, as a husband can make your wife happy. If you follow some of the suggestions on this list, maybe you can finally have some peace and harmony in your life.

1. Smile at your wife, and make eye contact when you do it. You don't have to say anything, just smile warmly and mean it. If you can do this when she looks her best, the impact of this gesture will be appreciated much more by your wife.

2. Don't yell at her. Use your voice at a nice, pleasant, quiet, volume. Shouting in her ear is very annoying, not to mention painfully loud. She can hear you if you talk to her without yelling. If you are angry about something she did, try to talk to it with her instead of yelling at her.

3. Listen to your wife. I know you think you cannot concentrate on what she is saying because it's too boring or you don't want to be distracted from what you are doing, but make the effort to listen. She might just have something important to say that you need to take care of for her.

4. Don't procrastinate about doing your chores or repairs for your wife. If she wants you to fix something, fix it as soon as she asks you too. The repair is for your benefit, too, so plan on doing it as soon as possible.

5. Compliment your wife. Don't be fake about it, be sincere. If she goes shopping, ask to see what she bought for herself. Your interest in her shopping purchases shows that you like that she dresses nice for you.

6. Don't be stingy. Spoil your wife in anyway you can. Small things can add up, and this can help if she is stuck paying for everything. She can put her money in the bank to save, instead of spending it on things you should pay for.

7. Don't waste money. This might mean you have to cut back on things you really don't need, like going out to a bar and buying too many drinks for yourself. Cut back on your consumption of beer, cigarettes, gas, ordering food in a restaurant, coffee house coffee, and whatever else you waste money on.

8. Close the seat and lid of the toilet. If your wife thinks this is strange, tell her you think the toilet looks better without looking inside at the water.

9. Pick up your clothes. Place the clothes in the hamper. Your wife should not have to pick up your clothes for you. Clean up your dishes after you eat something. This might mean to rinse them and put it in the dishwasher, or if you don't have one, wash the dishes (all of the dishes).

10. Brush your teeth and use mouthwash before you kiss her. She will really like that you are more pleasant to kiss, and will want to kiss you longer.

11. Take a shower before you ask her to make love to you. And ask her that way, that is, to make love. Don't be vulgar about it.

12. Take out the garbage. It's your job, not hers. And do it every night!

13. If she has a car, service it for her by taking it to the garage for a scheduled tuneup and oil change.

14. Let her decide what to watch on TV. Watch whatever she wants to watch, and be interested in the program.

15. Let your wife pick out your clothes and shoes. You will look better, and she will like the way you look too.

16. Don't lose your temper with your wife. If you need to blow off steam, get away from her and do it so she won't witness it. Once you cool off, then go back to her and spoil because you feel guilty for losing your temper.

17. Tell your wife I love you often. Be sincere and not sarcastic when you say it.

18. If your wife gets herself in trouble somehow, be understanding, sympathetic, and as helpful as possible to help her straighten out her problems. Don't put her down about her mistakes, but she supports you when you get into trouble without question.

19. Don't do things behind her back that would hurt her feelings. This would include cheating on her, going to places like stripper bars, or doing illegal substances.

20. Remember that she is a person, not your servant. She has an opinion, and she would like you to hear it. Be understanding when you listen to her, and do not interrupt her when she is talking to you.

Now you have 20 suggestions to think about when you are with your wife. If you make the effort to follow these suggestions, you will see that she is relaxed, and actually enjoy being around you.