3 Tips on How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

You've been dumped. Now what do you do? Well, you have got to get a plan. Here are 3 tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back.

Tip Number One: I agree.

The first thing you should do in your plan is call your ex girlfriend up and tell her that you agree with the breakup and that you wish her well. I know that this sounds like bull and my friend it is. Because if you really believed this you wouldn't want her back. But this is known as reverse psychology. This is fancy for knocking the wind out of her sails. All of a sudden this sounds like a mature person and not the immature idiot that she dumped.

Here is the important things to remember about this call. It has to be a call. You can talk to her in person or leave a message but it has to be done in your voice. Point two of this tip is that you must tell her this in a calm and polite tone. This won't come through if you email or instant message her.

The other part of this tip, hang up. You do not want to go into a long discussion about why, how or whatever. Remember you are trying to sound like you are not the immature rodent that she dropped.

Tip Number Two: Shut Up.

After you called her and told her that you agreed with the breakup, don't call her again. Now it's you who is going to play hard to get. You gave her the impression that it's over. Now you have to give her the impression that life is moving on without her. Remember how she wanted to control you. Well, now she can't. All of a sudden you are having ideas without her. This will drive her crazy.

The longer you play uninterested the better it is going to be. Hey, she was always telling you what to do, now she can't. How can you have a life without her? This is going to drive her crazy. Okay, it's going to drive you crazy too but you are in this for the long haul.

Tip Number Three: Play Hard to Get.

When your ex girlfriend calls you back, don't be in a hurry to return the call. First of all, let her leave you a message. Don't pick up the phone! Why? Because she wants to know that you are desperate without her. If you do this then she will feel that she was right about you and now she has control.

The truth is if you get back together too soon, you will just be back where you were before.

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