30 Day Sex Challenge - Just DO IT!

First, let me tell you how I got the idea. My husband was talking to his buddies at work about sex and he remembered hearing this guy on the radio say that some preacher had told his congregation (the married ones) to engage in sexual intercourse for the next 30 days. So, this was actually his idea, but it got me thinking, you know this really is a great thing to do for a married couple for a few reasons.

1. A lot of the time people use the excuse, "I don't have time to have sex." I'm sorry, but that doesn't fly with me. Sure, it's hard to find time, but that's what you do you find the time. That's the first part of this challenge to find time to have sex with your partner.

2. Can the women beat the men? My husband ALWAYS wants to have sex, that's all he thinks about, but if you think about it, that's a GREAT thing. At least he is still interested in me, and that's how I want to keep it. Anyways, I don't always feel like having sex, but now with this challenge I have to. I have to engage at least once a day for the next 30 days. I was thinking it would be kind of funny if my husband was at some point like, "Honey, I can't do it anymore, my D*# needs a rest!" So, one of my goals is to really see if I can last longer than him.

3. This challenge can be a GREAT thing for your marriage. Think about it for the next month you get to be intimate and close to your partner everyday. You might fall in love with them all over again. For a marriage that is "sexless" this really would be a challenge, but I believe it is worth doing. To some of those marriages that might be falling apart, I think something like this may help out. You appreciate the person all over again, and get that "newlywed" vibe back again. Fun, Fun!

Okay, everyone so this is it. There are only 2 rules: Have Sex at least once a day with YOUR partner, and have FUN! Be creative, be spontaneous, have the sex you want to have. Now go out there and have a great time. I hope to get some feedback on how everything is going and if you can take this challenge.

I just started my Sex challenge 2 days ago. It has been great! My husband really likes it. For someone who has been married for almost 4 years and on an average already has sex 3 to 4 times per week, also we have 2 children (1 1/2 year old and 5 month old) this is still a great way to be close to my husband and really appreciate him. I will admit though it will be tough. Last night we were so tired from fixing our house to put it up for sale, but was like no this is only day two, and tired isn't an excuse. And the sex was great, but what was really great was we both fell asleep cuddling, where as usually if we had just gone straight to bed, he would be on his side and I would be on mine.

So, get out there! Stop wasting time! You can do this. You need to do it. This challenge isn't just about sex. It's about having a commitment, loving your partner, being spontaneous, and stop making lame excuses!