4 Keys to Getting Along with Your Spouse While Writing for Associated Content

Nathan R. Hale
When starting any work-at-home job, there are necessarily changes in both your and your spouse's normal routine. In order to maintain your healthy relationship and be successful in your online endeavors for Associated Content, it's important to avoid unnecessary conflict and miscommunication. Here are 4 key strategies to maintaining clear communication regarding your new job with Associated Content.

Create a Dedicated Workspace

As I am finding out more and more, this is a must! Some sort of of home office area (it doesn't have to be a separate room) will help you focus on what you need to do, and will help your spouse know when you're working. This can help to avoid unnecessary interruptions and provides a way for you to "leave" your work. When you're somewhere other than your dedicated work area, then you know you're there to relax and enjoy your spouse's company. You don't feel the pressure to pick up your laptop and keep writing when you really shouldn't.

Define Your Work Hours

If you can maintain approximately the same hours every day, it may help you to stay disciplined in your article writing, however you probably won't end up doing that. I mean, isn't flexibility one of the many reasons many of us write for AC? If you don't maintain consistent hours, make a plan each evening for the next day, and let your significant other know when you'll be working. This is very important if you share a work area, computer or even a car with your spouse. If your spouse knows when you're at work, they may be able to help field distracting phone calls, visitors, and maybe even the kids for a while. Just make sure you return the favor! Make sure they know what's going on, and make sure to stay open and sensitive to their needs as well.

Clearly Communicate Your Work Needs

I tend to still be writing articles when my wife comes home from work. I made the mistake of not letting her know that the TV being on in my work area was quite a distraction! At first I was frustrated, but once I let her know that the TV was keeping me from being productive, she gladly moved to another room. Maybe you're not like me, though, and you need a bit of noise in the background. Let your spouse know it's fine for them to watch TV in the same room. Maybe you'd prefer for the kids to not have friends over while you're working--communicate that. The main thing is to think about your work environment and what you need to be productive, and then let your spouse know. This will go a long way to avoid silly and unimportant annoyances that could cause unnecessary frustrations. Of course, remain open to compromise!

Set Realistic Goals

Don't tell your spouse, "I'm going to write 10 articles every day and make $500 a week!" and then end up writing 5 per week and only bringing in $30. My original goal was 6 articles per day...and that was not realistic for me! It ended up being closer to 3. In order for your spouse to be on board with your ideas and aspirations for your career with Associated Content, you must remain realistic! Don't over do it...set a reasonable goal to start off with, and once your spouse sees your success, they will be 100% behind you when begin to increase your output. The key to is stay honest and real.

I hope these 4 keys to getting along with your spouse while writing for Associated Content help you to maintain clear communication and a mutually supportive atmosphere in your relationship. Remember, working for AC will be a learning process for both of you!

Published by Nathan R. Hale

Composer, writer, and sci-fi fan Nathan Hale was born in the USA, but spent his childhood abroad in Africa and Europe. He enjoys lending a global perspective to all his creative efforts, including freelance...  View profile

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  • Morgan Stockton9/29/2010

    Good article. Very good ideas. :)

  • Avery Bennett6/8/2009

    This is a great article. I will definitely implement your tips.

  • SFaloon7/5/2008

    Nathan this is great advice. I'm learning how to speak up for computer and quiet time and my husband has been great. I'm writing for 2 sites so I must learn to self discipline and get the work done. As for the phone, 2 words, answering machine! It's freeing, believe me!! :)

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