4 Reasons for Joining a Support Group

J. Ellen Fedder
For years, I was opposed to support group participation. The whole accountability thing bothered me, and I believed I could handle any life issues on my own. Well, there were things about support groups that I didn't know then, but do know now. Learn why having a support group--whether it's a diet support group, health condition support group, or a recovery support group--makes a world a sense. Here are 4 reasons for joining a support group centered around your specific issues and concerns.

1. Accountability

There's nothing wrong with accountability. Without accountability, it's easy to slide off whatever program your on. For example, diet support groups with weekly meetings, hold participants accountable at weigh-in. Recovery support groups leaders become concerned when participants don't show. Absenteeism can signal a return to addictive habits or isolation that has other ramifications. Accountability is a good thing; it keeps folks on track. The one who goes it alone, often find himself losing control and veering off course.

2. Shared Experience

The sense of shared experience is worth participating in a support group. When you meet with others who have endured the same struggle or have suffered the same health conditions, you're encouraged. You discover your issues are not unique. Other people understand exactly what you're going through. You're one of a group, rather than one of a kind. Those who are reaching toward similar goals or have attained them already, encourage your progress.

3. Source of information

Support groups are a source of information. Where else could you go to find pertinent information about your very condition? What's more, if folks in the group don't have the answers you seek, they'll generally know where to direct you to get answers. Knowledge is power, and support groups can help equip you with the knowledge you need to achieve your goals.

4. Relationship Forming

One thing that often happens with support group participation is friendships--friendships that wouldn't have begun for any other reason. These friendships bud into rewarding relationships based upon shared conditions or experiences. Support group participants begin to look out for one another, much as a family would care for it's members. In today's world of isolation, this is more family than some people ever experience.

If you've been shunning participation in a support group, for some odd reason or another, why not reconsider? Support groups hold you accountable and give you needed information for staying on track, succeeding in recovery, or working a program. They also allow you to build new and meaningful relationships. But one of the best reasons for joining a support group is the opportunity it affords you to rub shoulders with others just like yourself--others who understand what it's like to be you.

Published by J. Ellen Fedder

J. Ellen Fedder is an AC writer known for her conversational writing style. Freelance writer and one of AC's "Top 1000" for 2008, 2009, 2010, and 2011, she offers a fresh perspective on family living and ed...  View profile

  • Support groups hold you accountable.
  • Support groups let you see you're not alone in your experience.
  • Support groups provide information about your concerns.
Those who are reaching toward similar goals or have attained them already, encourage your progress.

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