4 Signs that Your Partner is Cheating

Look for a dramatic decrease in together time. If your partner used to call you every day, if you saw each other on certain days, had your happy little routines, and suddenly things have tapered off or halted completely, this can point to possible trouble. Common lies cheaters use are "working late" or "going out with friends".

Don't jump to conclusions though, sometimes they may have to work late and at times they truly are out with friends. After all, you probably work late at times and visit friends too! If it becomes a pattern though and is combined with any of the following cheater signs, you can pretty much assume there's trouble in paradise.

Your partner starts dressing differently:

If your partner used to lounge around in sweats and old T-shirts and suddenly starts dressing better before going out, if he seldom shaved and now has a baby-smooth face, if she never wore perfume and now smells like a French brothel, be on red-alert. They want to look good for their lover or when they're out on the prowl for someone new.

There's less intimacy in the relationship:

If he/she seems uninterested in being affectionate, if your sex life has taken a nosedive, this is another sign that they could be cheating. Again, there needs to be multiple signs not just this one. At times your partner may be under a great deal of stress or is depressed-two other common reasons for a decrease in intimacy. However, if your partner has found someone else, they usually distance themselves physically and emotionally from their current partner.

Sparks fly when you bring up the subject of cheating:

Maybe you're just feeling insecure and you blow small things out of proportion, maybe you're just feeling needy right now. That happens. But if you approach your partner and discuss the fact that you feel he/she isn't acting like they used to and they erupt like a volcano this is a bad sign! If your partner truly loves you and cares about making the relationship work, why get upset if you mention some changes in personality or actions?

If you calmly confront your partner with your suspicions that he/she is cheating and they end up yelling, screaming, or stalking away, that's a pretty strong sign you're with a cheater. Guilt has a way of making people feel defensive! The chronic liar may try to deny it and turn the tables on you, trying to make you believe you're crazy, insecure, or that it's all your fault. Stay strong and know your partner is simply trying to throw the scent off his/her cheating ways and blame you instead.

On their own, these problems may be nothing, but combined they add up to the fact that your partner is most likely seeing someone else. Nobody deserves to be in this type of relationship. You deserve love, loyalty, and happiness! Find out for sure if they're cheating and if so move on.