Happiness
Does your lesbian partner make you happy? If you truly are happy with her and love her very much then consider her as being your life partner. Discuss this with her to see her reaction. If she wants to be your life partner make sure that she is totally one hundred percent happy with you. You don't want to end up with the wrong lesbian.
Religion
If you have a religion then make sure that your church accepts lesbian relationships. Is your partner the same religion as you? This is important in order to make sure there are no conflicts down the road together. Religion is one thing that you shouldn't overlook as not being important since it is to you and her. Two different religions usually don't work out.
Family
Do you or your partner have children? You need to discuss in details how the children are going to be raised if you have any. Does only one of you ladies parent the children and the other one the fun person to be with? You have to decide how to handle conflicts with the children if you have any. Another thing is to take into consideration whether or not your relatives will accept the relationship eventually. Sooner or later they will have to recognize the relationship whether they want to admit it or not.
Money
Does your partner handle money well? Does your partner spend money recklessly? This is something else to think about too. You don't want to end up homeless. You need to figure out with each other how to handle money together. The more responsible one with money should most likely handle it the most in order to make sure of less conflicts later on.
Just make sure that your life partner is someone that you see yourself being with forever despite their imperfections. Make sure that you are happy with your life partner and she doesn't make you cry in a bad way. You don't want to be with someone who makes you sad all the time since the relationship won't work out if you stay in one you aren't happy with. ..
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2 Comments
Post a CommentCommon sense for any type of relationship.
Good article! I linked to it at my lesbian dating blog.
http://meetherhere.blogspot.com/2010/01/4-tips-on-how-to-choose-lesbian-life.html