4 Ways to Pamper Your Mate

Whether your married, dating someone, or have a significant other everyone needs a little pampering sometimes. Why not pamper that special someone and set up a day thats just for them. In this article I list some ways you can pamper them and make them feel special. Whether you male or female everyone wants to be pampered sometimes.

I suggest once a week or once a month, whichever works for you, set up a time thats just for them. It could be the whole day or just a few hours. You both have to decide what day or time would be good for you and work out some kind of schedule in advance. Each partner will have their day or time that is just for them. Preferably not on the same day.

What you could do is to put together a his and hers suggestion jar. When its the wifes turn to be pampered, for example, the husband would draw from her jar. You could have him draw like a week ahead of time so he can prepare. It doesn't have to be extravagant it could be any type of suggestion. I will list some of them here to get you started.

Sexual fantasies

Naturally you will want to add some of these to your suggestion jar. The suggestions do not have to be sexual in nature but everyone likes a few of them. This would be the time to suggest that your wife dress up in that cowgirl or cheerleader outfit as one of your fantasies.

Foot massage or neck rub

Not all suggestions have to lead to sex but you could have some suggestions that just make you feel good after a long day. Whether your male or female everyone likes a good massage now and than to relax muscles and relieve tension. The power of the touch means so much inside of a relationship that can really make your partner feel special.

Special meal

Why not cook a special meal for your mate. Husbands wives like this one a lot especially when they don't have to cook and your doing it for them for a change. If you can't cook you can always take her out to her favorite restaurant. Just make sure you put some real effort into it so your mate really feels special.

Special gift

This can be anything and it doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive. Maybe your mate has been wanting a cologne they tried on or seen advertised. I know a woman who was all smiles when her husband used to buy her a big dill pickle. It just proved to her that he loved and cared for her. That Hershey bar your husband likes so well could just really make his day.

When it comes to pampering your mate there are so many ways to accomplish this. You know what your mate likes and besides the suggestion jar will do most of thinking for you.