5 Essential Tips to Show How Much You like Him

How to Show Someone that You like Him?

andra picincu
It has become increasingly fashionable for women to make the first step in a relationship. However, you don't want at all to follow this rule. You like him, but you'd prefer to send him only the necessary signals to determine him to make the first step.

How to show that you like him and that you're willing to start a relationship with him?

Communication - the first step in a relationship

Start speaking more often with him. Show yourself interested in anything he says. Ask him more questions to show him your interest.

Try to guess or find out from your common friends which are his areas of interest and ask him about these topics. For example, if he's passionate about computers, tell him that you want to buy a PC and you need a certain configuration. In case he likes to read, ask him to recommend you a book.

Also, the questions about his personal life are not inquisitive, but indicated to make him aware that you are interested in what he makes in his free time. You can ask him anything, starting from the way in which he spent his weekend, to his hobbies. For example, ask him about one of your common hobbies, such as going to the cinema; this may even sound like an indirect invitation.

Compliments and personal discussions

Take advantage of the opportunities he gives you to make him compliments. But take care, because men are more suspicious than women. Therefore, it would be recommended that you believe what you're saying.

If you like him, it means that you already found some things that you appreciate regarding his person and therefore, it's not hard to compliment him. Start a conversation about people and relationships with the opposite sex in particular. Ask him what he likes about women and then tell him what kind of men attracts you. Instinctively, he will be very attentive to this discussion.

Make sure the description you make regarding your "Mr. Right" is one that fits him. For example, instead of telling him directly "I like that you're very decided and you could handle well a family", say that "I like decided men, who are strong and skillful". This way, it seems that you are sincere and open with him and that you let him to know you better; moreover, he will believe that he's the one you're looking for.

Another way to make him feel involved in your personal life would be to ask for his opinion about your life. You can ask for his advice regarding a decision related to your career.

Accidental touches

If you want to suggest more clearly that you are attracted to him, you can touch him in two ways: On the one hand, you can take advantage of any opportunity to touch his leg accidentally under the table; this way, you'll make him pay attention to the gesture even if he will think that all was accidentally; he will think more about the possibility of a relationship between you two.

On the other hand, the "friendship" can be an "extra". You can use this pretext to touch him friendly during your discussions. You can shake his hand, touch his shoulders, or even put your head on his shoulder. These signs of physical affection will make him think more about you.

Coincidences

Take care to be as much as possible next to him. For example, if you know where from and when he takes the bus in the morning, you can be there. Men also believe in faith, is it enough clear to you?

The eyes are the mirror of the soul

It isn't just an expression, and he is instinctively aware of this. If you like him, look him right in the eyes when you talk. The persistent eye contact makes him realize that you're interested in him. When you like what you see, your pupils are dilated.

To be clearer, try to smile as often as possible and always laugh at his jokes.

Published by andra picincu

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  • Janet Hunt7/19/2009

    Nice! You really should do an advice column. It would do great!

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