5 Mistakes Men Make with Women

While some men seem to instinctively know how to behave in a relationship, others are clueless. It would be impossible for a man to ever fully understand a woman, but that doesn't mean he shouldn't try. It can take a long time to irritate a woman to the point of snapping, but still, some men never learn from their mistakes. In order to maintain a happy relationship, let's look at five of the biggest mistakes men make with women.

Calling or texting too often

There is no doubt that women will swoon over a guy who sends a romantic text message first thing in the morning, or calls to let his date know how much he enjoyed her company. But calling several times a day and sending an excessive amount of text messages is never going to win a woman's heart. It gives an impression of neediness, and in spite of reports to the contrary, women like their men to be men. Having to answer a man's phone calls, especially when he has nothing new to say, is something most women could happily live without.

Not listening

Men are not renowned for being good listeners. They are, however, good at looking as though they are listening. They seem to have the understanding head bob down to a fine art, even though they are thinking about the football results and what they would like for dinner. When a woman is talking to a man, she expects to be heard. It is no surprise that women get angry when they find out nothing they said has sunk in. Men who don't listen may soon find themselves searching for a new partner if they don't change their ways!

Trying to get physical too soon or at inappropriate times

In new relationships, knowing when to make a move can be tough. It's particularly difficult for the man as he is usually the one expected to initiate the next step. However, trying to get a woman into bed on the first date is something that should never be attempted. This doesn't mean it won't happen - sometimes it does. But the subject shouldn't be pushed. Additionally, if a man is already in a relationship, he should not try to get his girlfriend in the mood when she has told him she is tired, annoyed or upset.

Telling her how she feels/should feel

This is an enormous mistake made by men all over the world. Women are just as entitled to have opinions and feelings as men. Any man who tries to inflict his opinions on her or tell her that what she feels is wrong is headed for trouble. Women are fully aware that sometimes they can be irrational, but pointing it out will not make things better.

Underestimating her ability to discover the truth

Many men seem to think they can dupe their partner, whether it is over something small like a sneaky drink after work with his friends, or something bigger like the real price of his new car. Any man who is considering lying to his girlfriend should think again. Women have an uncanny knack of being able to sniff out a lie. It may not be instant, but the moment she thinks something is amiss, she will go out of her way to figure out what it is.

Being pushy, lying, not paying attention, too many phone calls and undermining her feelings are among the least desirable qualities a man can possess. For a man to live in harmony with a woman, he should avoid making these mistakes, or risk ending up alone.