5 Reasons to Love Fathers

Rita Jan
Fathers are wonderful by nature. They are what every young boy wants to grow up to be like and what every young girl wants to grow up to marry. They know just how to put a bad situation in the correct perspective and they are funny to boot!

They are strong and dependable. Fathers are there for us when we need them. They may be gruff, they may chew you out over even the smallest things, but they know your potential and drive you to reach it. Fathers sacrifice a great deal to support us and keep us in good health and be good influences on us. They can weather the toughest storms and still come out on top. When we are encountering our first breezes with fear, it is nice to know that our fathers do not even notice them.

They forgive unconditionally. Fathers have a lot of life experience and have made a lot of mistakes during their short time on this earth, so they are forgiving of our screw-ups. Even if we think that they won't follow through, they will never give up on us, no matter what. It is in their nature to forgive their children, just as it is in our nature to try to make them proud. They may say that they will never forgive us and they may believe that, but their love will never truly die, and their forgiveness will always win out in the end.

They are great teachers. Fathers are excellent instructors in anything, from how to play baseball to giving advice on dating. Fathers are proficient in what behaviors are acceptable, what you can get away with if you are careful, and what is absolutely crossing the line. They understand boundaries and frequently in the household, they know much more about the workings of the family than they let on.

They are handy fix-it men. Fathers can fix anything, from broken pipes and holes in the wall to broken hearts and immature lovers. They know the simplest, easiest ways to fix a problem so that everyone turns out on top. Fathers are good listeners and know to fix childish perspectives. They know how to properly teach construction, betting, guarding, fighting and being wise. They may be rough, but they sure are handy.

They are fantastic protectors. Fathers know just where the bad guys are, just how to take them down, and exactly how to celebrate afterward. Fathers are great guardians and they are great at teaching their sons how to be guardians as well. They raise the bar high for what their daughters consider good enough protection in men. They know how to hunt, fish, shoot, and grill and they always share their spoil.

Fathers are great. If you have not had a good father, do not give up on them. There is an occasional bad dad out there, but most of the time there is lots of good in each father if you look for it. Begin with respect and end with love, and don't forget to tell your father how much you love him!

Published by Rita Jan

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