5 Safe Sex Gifts for Valentine's Day

Sure, Valentine's Day is about love, romance, and all the frilly stuff in between, but many people see it as a bonus opportunity to get in some extra-romantic lovemaking. But if you think this is the perfect time to lose the condom and go bareback, think again: 19 million new sexually transmitted infections occur each year, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

Making even one little mistake-going full coitus while neglecting to stay safe-can cause instant STD transmission.

This does not mean your Valentine's Day plans have to be ruined, though. Safe sex items today are made to enhance your sexual experience while preventing STD transmission, which earns thumbs up (and even more) all around. So don't go bareback-choose these timely gifts instead, which keep lovemaking free of any unwanted infections.

5 Safe Sex Gifts for Valentine's Day

1. Bwarm Massage Candle by BSwish

Made from soothing soy oil and shea butter, this candle doubles as a mood enhancer and a massage oil. "They're lit and allowed to burn for 20 or so minutes, which is great for 'setting the mood'", says Sarah Sloane, a sexuality and relationships educator. "Then the liquid oil can be poured into your hands or onto your lover's body and used for massaging." With invigorating scents such as Amber Amore, Patchouli, and Fig Leaf, this gift is essential for enhancing lovemaking safely. $21.85 at EdenFantasys.com.

2. FunctionAll Linens

Combining storage and easy accessibility into a functional bed sheet, FunctionAll Linens also aid in safe sex practices: many people use it to discreetly store safe sex items. "I didn't have to jump up out of bed and ruin the moment by digging through my safety drawer," says Marian, a FunctionAll Linen user. "I cleverly stashed some condoms in the sheet pockets before he came over and all I had to do was reach over and grab one." Available in a variety of styles, its fabric, color, and even pocket placement can be customized to fit a person's needs-a romantic, functional gift for that special someone on Valentine's Day. $47.00 and up at FunctionAll-Linens.com.

3. The LOVEBUCKLE

Storing condoms in your pocket-or worse, in your wallet-can cause it to wear down, creating microscopic holes that decreases STD protection. The LOVEBUCKLE, a stylish belt with a secret compartment for storing safe sex items, keeps them in a safe, temperature-controlled environment, preventing wear and tear.

Erika, a LOVEBUCKLE owner from California, enjoys its versatility and convenience. "What I really enjoy about the LOVEBUCKLE is the ability to switch out the artwork on the condoms to match with my clothes. I get lots of comments from people wondering what it is and where I got it. I've been able to give the condom to friends who needed it when I didn't since it was right there and super handy, too."

Available in black or pink, it also comes with three ONE condoms and can accommodate waists from 26 to 42 inches. This is a fashionable, safe sex gift ideal for both sexes. $85 at OhMiBod.com.

4. Trojan 2GO by Trojan Brand Condoms

For a Valentine's Day romp on-the-go, Trojan 2GO ensures condom safety in a sleek, discreet case. Available in Her Pleasure Thin or Ultra Thin varieties, Trojan 2GO protects against STD transmission without reducing sensitivity-an ideal match for straight and homosexual couples. This Valentine's Day gift may not be ideal for those sensitive to latex. $4.99 at most retail stores.

5. Heartwood Whips

Made from soft, durable materials such as deer skin or elk, Heartwood Whips sensitize the skin without causing too much pain, making it an ideal Valentine's Day gift for enhancing safe sex play. "They are often depicted as things that are used in heavy S&M play, but in softer and lighter materials they can be extraordinarily sensual and a great part of role play and sensual play," says Sloane. Slapped or brushed lightly on the skin, it can provide an invigorating experience. The flogger's length, braiding, and materials can change the intensity of the sensations. This is an ideal gift for those who like to experiment. $90 and up at HeartwoodWhips.com.

Giving an appropriate safe sex gift for Valentine's Day should never detract from your experience-equipped with the right tools, you and your partner can stimulate each other's senses simply through sensual skin-to-skin contact. Lovemaking encompasses more than just sex, and includes the closeness and intimacy of being in a loving, healthy relationship.

Sources:
"Trends in Reportable Sexually Transmitted Diseases in the United States, 2007", CDC.gov