5 Signs of Abuse By Proxy Indirectly Caused By Him

Abuse by proxy is often done by an abuser when the victim is getting stronger. The abuser begins to notice that he is losing control over the victim. Abuse by proxy is when the abuser uses people and authority figures to his advantage in order to obtain more control over you by further abuse. Here are five signs of abuse by proxy commonly done behind closed doors.

He May Even Recruit Your Children & Ex To Abuse You For Him

He knows that children can be easy manipulated. He knows that an ex is rarely going to speak good things about you. He will use children and an ex as a weapon against you. He will even try to get the ex family members to go against you as well when there is children in the picture. He may try to get your kids taken away from you from telling lies to the courts with your ex standing there right next to him.

He Recruits Every Cruel Person Around To Gang Up On You

He will use anyone like former friends and family that you have a weak relationship with to abuse you nearly any way possible. He can sense a drained relationship that he will use to his advantage. He loves to create drama that causes further to abuse to you. He won't stop at using your own mother against you to emotionally torture you all the time as long as he remains in your life. He may even use your ex husband against you.

He Manipulates Police Into Thinking That You Have A Mental Illness With Help From People

He often downplays the abuse by his attempts to convince the police that you have a mental illness. You know that you don't really have a mental illness, but yet he uses it against you so he doesn't go to jail. He may even try to get his family members to believe it as well to make it sound more credible to work to his advantage. He may even tell your own family member that you are mentally ill to the point that you don't real from fake anymore.

He Manipulates Your Own Family Against You

He is such a good con artist that he managed to use his charm and techniques to manipulate your own family against you. He has your family so brainwashed to the point that they start being mean to you by him leading the show. The more people that he can get to abuse you then the more power that he begins to have over everyone. He shows you indirectly how much power he has when he successfully cons your own family into thinking that abuse is okay. He manages to convince them that you caused him to be abusive or that you deserve it.

Family Threaten You With A Mental Ward Admission If You Speak About The Abuse To Anyone

He tries through third parties to threaten you. He tries to third parties to convince you that what he does to you is acceptable from the behavior of other people letting him get away with it. Some husbands are very skilled enough in certain states to get their wife admitted to a mental ward against their will. One word of advice if this happens then immediately have the hospital staff call the police then he will be arrested on several felony charges. You can sue him for damages as well in most situations. You will end up with money and he will end up in jail. He may think that he is smart enough to get you admitted , but he isn't smart enough to realize that he will end up in jail.

He seeks out abuse directed to you by anyone that he possibly can. He will lie to them. He will spread rumors. He will try to convince them to believe things that are not true. He will turn situations around to make you look like the crazy one since he wants everyone to abuse you for him. He wants to abuse you indirectly with people doing his dirty work so much that the gang of people hurting you so badly that it will cause you to eventually do whatever he wants without putting up a fight.