Obsessive Jealousy: It has been proven over and over again that around 99.99% of women have jealousy issues, however; does she overdue it? It's within her right to get mad if you talk to or look at other women, however; if she gets mad when other women look at you and accuses you of trying to talk to them, there may be a serious problem arising. If she tells you possessive things such as "I'll kill you if you ever left me", you may want to take it to heart instead of taking it as a humorous slogan. Does she go thru your phone? Sure every girlfriend may go thru their significant others phone from time to time, however, does she know the name and numbers of all of your contacts as well as know your voicemail password? If you felt you had nothing to hide and gave it to her then good for you, however; did she find out your password even though you didn't give it to her? These are the questions you have to ask yourself, and these are the signs of obsessive jealousy!
"Shows Out" in Public: Sure every couple has their ups and downs and even gets into arguments while they're out in public, however, does your girlfriend always make it a point to get loud and vulgar when you're having a disagreement in public? Does she constantly scream at the top of her lungs and even approach you as if she's going to get physical? All of these signs show a lack of self control, which in time can be dangerous to her as well as you. If she acts like this on daily basics, you may want to re-evaluate your relationship status.
Very Unstable Emotions: Sure she was smiling and laughing when you first walked in the door from work, however; in the time it took you to take your jacket and shoes off, she's broken down to tears and a frown. If your girlfriend's emotions are like night and day, this may be a sign that she has more serious mental problems. Sure we expect this out of them 1 to 2 weeks out of the month; however, if she is like this on daily basics, you may want to recommend that she seek medical attention. If she gets enraged at the thought of you thinking she needs medical attention, she may be in a state of denial and you may be in a "stranded" state if you wait too long to depart that sinking ship!
Paranoid Assumptions: Most of the time it's more than normal for a girlfriend to accuse their boyfriend of cheating on them with other girls, however, is she truthfully convinced you're cheating on her and she's going to catch you? If she is already convinced in her mind that you're cheating on her even though you're not, she's not changing her mind! Does she constantly question your whereabouts or tardiness? Even if your 2 or 3 minutes late getting home, does she ask what took you so long, or say "You were suppose to be home 3 minutes ago?". If 15 minutes to an hour go by, it may be acceptable for her to question you on your whereabouts, however; if she is questioning your timing when it comes to seconds and minutes under 5, rethink your relationship, it may only go downhill from there!
Trying to Control Your Life: Recommending and suggesting things you should like are typical behavior of a girlfriend, however, when she starts demanding and telling you the things you will like and dislike, there's a problem! Take for example that your favorite food is chicken and she strictly likes fish, if she tells you that you will no longer eat chicken you will only eat fish, she's trying to control your life! You should be able to tell the difference in her tone as to whether she is serious or not. If you let too many these lines slip from her lips and you follow them, you will be reduced to a lap dog!
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3 Comments
Post a CommentGreat article, couldn't have said it better myself.
Just tell it like it is.
I don't think you're assuming all women are like this, but it don't hurt to protect yourself when the line is being cross from concern to crazy. I knew a guy whose woman was over the top controlling, and your article reminded me of her, not all women. :-) Great read!
This article was very entertaining but it was just not realistic and I think just because you had a few CRAZYS in your life you should not assume all women are like that.