5 Simple Ways to Show Your Kids You Love Them

Little Ways to Tell Children You Love Them Without Words

Summer Minor
When it comes to love, actions can speak much louder than words. Kids not only need to hear their parents say that they are loved, kids also need to see it. Showing kids love can be easy to do when parents take the time. Here are ten simple ways any parent can make their children feel loved without saying the words.

1. Listen to your child's day. Turn off all distractions and tune into your child. Set aside special time each day where your children can tell you about their day, what they want, what they fear. Make sure you spend that time listening and supporting your child fully. The more a child feel that you are listening, the more willing he will be to talk.

2. Go on a date. Whether you go to the park, to a museum, or just out for ice cream, spending that special one on one time together shows your child that he is special and loved. Let your child pick the place or tune into his interests to choose places that you know he will enjoy.

3. Have a family night. One night each week, create a special family night for your children. You can spend it watching a movie, playing board games, or doing a craft together. Make this a regular event that you specifically set aside time for. When children know they have a special place in their parents' busy schedules they know that they also have a special place in their hearts.

4. Cuddle and touch. Snuggle on the couch together to enjoy a movie, read a book, or just sit and talk. Physical affection is a great way to show children that you love them. Frequent hugs, kisses, and even just light touches will build connections between you. Even in rough patches, a moment of physical attention can be a good way to stay connected.

5. Leave your children love notes. Sneak short love notes into your child's lunch box, jacket pocket, or on their pillow. These little notes can make your child feel loved and special when you are not there. Wish him luck on a test, congratulate him on winning a game, or just wish him sweet dreams when you are away from home for a day.

You do not have to spend money to show your children that you love them. There are little things that you can do every day to show your love and build a lifetime connection with your children.

Published by Summer Minor

Summer Minor is a mother of 3 who practices Attachment Parenting and believes that with gentle guidance children can grow to be who they were meant to be. She blogs about parenting at http://mama2mamatips.com  View profile

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  • Pat Burroughs2/2/2010

    I'll bet you're a great mother. My daughter has told me of little things that meant a lot to her, like making her and her doll matching coats for Christmas, and riding on bicycles out to a creek three miles away and taking ur breakfast. Things I didn't even remember. You make good points here.

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