5 Turn Offs in Women

Women have a great amount of qualities to make themselves beautiful, from their perfect figures or their great personalities. When they have these qualities, it creates attraction and turns people on to them. But on the other end of the spectrum, there are also qualities that create a turn off effect, I've found a few I just can't enjoy.

Going too heavy on the makeup - Makeup on women is usually a good thing when used right, but again there can be too much of a good thing. Heavy makeup can look like someone is hiding something, or just appearing half plastic and fake. I'm all about women using makeup, but too much is never a good thing.

Ugly personality- When you're going out for a first date, there isn't much to be scared of other than the person you're going with. You want them to be polite, happy, and generally outgoing. There's nothing better than having a first date go well and look forward to the next. Of course they can always fail and it's glass is always half empty. Going out and experiencing a rude, obnoxious, or outright annoying date is something that can make the most attractive female feel unattractive. Good personalities are usually what make or break a date for me.

Lack of fitness - To me a woman being fit is extremely attractive, it shows that they are dedicated to being good to their body. Staying fit is a serious commitment, as is a relationship. if they can be committed to themselves through fitness, it's clear to see that they are capable of commitment. On top of that a fit woman just radiates sex appeal from top to bottom, front to back. Being out of shape is something I don't find attractive, mostly because I'm in shape myself and I look for it in others.

Acting fake - When a woman is acting like someone she isn't it's bad from the start. With almost anyone you can tell from the start whether or not they're being real with you, that everything they're saying is mentally unedited and from them. They're usually verbally articulate in a way that matches their personalities. When someone is fake they're always acting; their common self is mixed with this personality their acting like. It rarely sounds good. It might be interesting but at the same time it's mostly a turn off.

Liars - Lying is something that sort of fits in the acting fake category but it's so big it deserves its own little piece. Lying is unattractive in so many ways, after awhile it's all there is. When you have to lie it means the lie is better than the truth. When the truth is something you can't talk about, it's definitely nothing you want to hear. Sensing lies is something that is really ugly, and when you know they are lies, it's over. To me there is no sense is being with someone that needs to lie to hide the truth of the dark reality they're hiding. Of course there are always little white lies, but they're so little there is no point in lying about them. It's just a big turn off any way you look at it.

All of these things can effect a relationship in a serious way. It's not always about how turned on you are toward a person or how turned off you are. Though they are good guidelines, the best thing to do is like a person for what you find good in them, not searching for flaws. Life is too short to worry too much about what turns you off, do what makes you happy. Even if it is getting with someone that turns you off in one way or another.