5 Turnoffs that Make Great Guys Wave Goodbye

Michelle Knudson
Women hate rejection. We hate it when a man tells us that he will call us when he has no intention of calling us. They tend to give us false hope that we are tired of hearing when they mention the call word. Here are five turnoffs that make great guys wave goodbye.

Marriage

Men do not like women that bring up marriage immediately. They are not impressed with someone that tries to rush them. It is important to leave it up to the man to discuss marriage with you first. Do not mention the future very much at all in the beginning otherwise he will run away. You don't want to seem like you come onto him too strong.

Education

Men desire women who is a very well educated. Most men like to date women that earn around the same amount of money as them. They figure that women who make around the same amount of money are not gold diggers. Many men have been told that people without a college degree are a gold digger or she doesn't earn even half of the amount.

Children

Some men run away whenever they hear the word children. Some men simply do not want to be a stepfather or a biological father. They will run away when children are a responsibility or package that they don't want with you. Some men simply do not want too much commitment and children are a huge responsibility. They don't want to deal with the drama that goes along with ex husbands and new step-moms.

Divorce

Men do not want to be with someone that has been divorced several times. A divorce under your belt doesn't look good at at all since most people view it as a bad reflection upon you. They do not want to hear all the horrible stories of why it ended. They just think that something is wrong with you since you've been divorced several times despite the reasons you tell them.

Mental Illness

Most men who do not understand mental illness will run the other way. You can not help your mental illness in most cases. Some men can not handle being a person that has a mental illness. The men who do this may make you feel horrible about yourself. Any man who walks away from a person with a mental illness is NOT worth it.

Published by Michelle Knudson

Michelle is a freelance writer who has sold and published over 550 articles. Her writing strengths include, business, financial topics and relationships. You may contact her at michelle@michelleknudsonwrite...  View profile

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  • Ayanna G.4/26/2010

    Wow, I guess that means high-school educated divorced women with children will never get Date Number Two! That seems kind of sad for them. Interesting observations...

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