5 Unique Reasons Women Withhold Sex

Michelle Knudson
Women don't usually withhold sex in a relationship unless there is a good reason for it. It implies that there is problems within the relationship when a woman withholds sex from you. Don't take it personally though since sometimes it has nothing to do with you. Here are five reasons women withhold sex.

She Doesn't Want Pregnancy

Some women are afraid to admit it that they don't want to get pregnant yet. Some women would rather have no sex at all than to take the risk of pregnancy despite all the birth control methods available these days. She may feel like that she won't make a good enough mother to the children due to personal issues within herself.

She Isn't Property

Some women will refuse to have sex with you if she feels like that you view her like a piece of property. No woman wants to feel like that she is just an object and not a real human to you. She wants to feel worth something to you and not feeling like a piece of property. You don't own her. She doesn't want to feel owned by you.

She Feels Like It's Her Duty

She feels obligated to have sex with you. She doesn't really want to have sex with you when she feels like it is her duty. Some religions use a warped sense of thinking that they instill in women that it is her duty to have sex with a man regardless of what she wants.

She Is A Sexual Abuse Victim

She may not be able to tell you about her past due to embarrassment. It is something that obviously makes her feel uncomfortable to talk about in most cases. Some women only feel safe enough at the moment to talk about it with another woman such as a therapist. It is sometimes difficult for men to understand exactly what a woman has been through since he isn't a woman.

She Is Mad At You

You might of said something that hurt her feelings. You might of done something that made her to not want to have sex with you. Women are sensitive people that can get hurt quite easy so please be careful when you speak or behave around them. If this is the case then ask her what is wrong. Talk about it. Communication is the number one key to help solve problems in relationships between a man and woman.

Another reason why a woman might withhold sex from you is because she feels fat. She might not feel very attractive anymore so therefore she might want to work on losing weight before she jumps back into bed. She should seek therapy for issues related to not feeling attractive and sexual abuse in order to help herself overcome sex issues.

Published by Michelle Knudson

Michelle is a freelance writer who has sold and published over 550 articles. Her writing strengths include, business, financial topics and relationships. You may contact her at michelle@michelleknudsonwrite...  View profile

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  • Lorena Richie1/4/2011

    very true

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