5 Unique Things to Never Do in a New Relationship

Michelle Knudson
It's only your third date, you were hoping to get to second base but instead, she dumped you over the phone. It's your fourth date with him, you are planning to ask him back to your place for the night because you really dig him. Instead, he says that it's not working out and wants to end it before it really even got started. Sure you can say that it's him/her and not you. I have some reality for you though....It's YOU. If you're doing some of the following things with your new relationship, it's no wonder they dumped you. Keep reading and perhaps, you can correct this behavior.

Learn From Your Mistakes

Don't repeat the same error over and over again in life. You will end up spinning your wheels going nowhere. You don't want to end up alone from making the same mistakes several times in a row. Remember, we learn so much more from our failures and mistakes than we do our successes. If you don't apply what you've learned from your errors, you're destined to repeat the mistakes in the new relationship.

Don't Assume

Several people assume that their new partner is going to end up like the old partner. One shouldn't pass judgment so quick against someone. Your new partner in your life is nothing like your old partner. You should give the person a chance to show you that he or she is not like any other ex that you've encountered over the years. Not all men are cheaters and not all women are gold diggers.

Don't Mention Your Ex Has A Better Salary

No person wants to hear about how the persons past love was better able to financially provide for them. Never compare your life from what you had in the past to what you currently have at the moment with your new love. This is pretty common and most people who do it, don't even realize that they are doing it..

Don't Discuss Looks

No man or woman wants to hear about how hot some ex was before they entered the picture. The more that you talk about how handsome or cute your ex was, the more you're going to send signals that you with your current love was more like your ex.. Why would you want to sabotage your relationship from the beginning?

Don't Discuss How Good Sex Was With Your Ex.

Don't ever mention sex with your ex with a new love no matter what. Never say that he or she was better in bed than your current partner. I don't care if your ex boyfriend was hung like a porn star. Your current boyfriend has no interest in that whatsoever. If your ex girlfriend had a hard body like Jenna Jameson and the skills in bed to match, keep that information from ever spewing from your lips around your current girlfriend. You don't want your partner to feel inadequate.

Hopefully, you learned something after reading this. May your next relationship be the one that lasts forever. Good luck out there.

Published by Michelle Knudson

Michelle is a freelance writer who has sold and published over 550 articles. Her writing strengths include, business, financial topics and relationships. You may contact her at michelle@michelleknudsonwrite...  View profile

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