5 Ways to Keep Your Kids Safe on the Internet

If you've seen those Dateline shows about Internet predators, then you are well aware of the dangers that the Internet poses. According to a published report by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, 1 in 5 children have been solicited for sex in the past year! In addition, 1 in 4 have reported being exposed to photos of adults having sex!

Recently, it has become even easier for predators to find and solicit under aged children. Teen networking sites are a prime example of places where millions of kids go to "hang out" on the net. As a result, these predators have taken an interest in these sites and use them as a means to meet and take advantage of teens and young adults.

So how can we monitor our child's Internet activity? Many parents are simply not able to be around 24/7 to make certain that the Internet is not being abused. Here are a few ways to help reduce the risk:

1. Communication - This is the first line of defense. You should be communicating with your child about what sites he/she visits on a regular basis. If there is an open line of communication between you and your child, then he/she is less likely to go behind your back and visit sites that are forbidden.

2. Computer Location - Call me old fashioned, but I would never allow my child to have a computer w/Internet access in his/her bedroom. Your family's computer should be located in an open, public place so that it is easy to see what sort of activity is going on. Don't give your kids privacy when they're on the Internet!

3. Access - Always know your child's password to any accounts they might have on the Internet....like email or "networking sites". Check in periodically to see if they've received any questionable emails or material. If they have, ASK them about it!

4. Spend Time w/Them...on line - Have your child show you where they've been online and if they have a profile on any "networking sites", make sure that it isn't sexually suggestive. This goes back to the communication line of defense, but the more open you are, the better experience you will have with keeping your child safe on the Internet.

5. Teach - It is important to keep your child informed as to why you are being so "nosy"...which is what they will think. Once they realize that you are helping them remain safe, they might be more open to the your suggestions.

Just remember, YOU are the adult here! YOU make the rules, and if they don't like it, they can stay off the Internet entirely. You will no doubt run into some resistance, especially when you ask for access to their accounts. Be FIRM, and remember that they are at risk and you have to take every precaution to keep your child safe!

Good Luck and God Bless!