5 Ways You Can Tell He's Just Not that into You

You meet a guy. You really like the guy. He asks for your phone number. You go home. You sit by the phone. He doesn't call. You wonder, "what happened?" Perhaps he does call 5 days later and ask you out. You go out. You have a good time. You never hear from him again.

Sound familiar? Probably too familiar. How can you know when he is just not into you? Why would he ask for your phone number if he isn't going to call? Why go out and have a good time and then never talk to you again? Why? Why? Why? Why? Because all men are jerks! Just kidding! All men are NOT jerks. Just the jerks are jerks.

What are the signs to look for to help a gal out? I would say first and foremost no eye contact. I don't know why but most guys will not look at you when talking to you, at least not at your eyes. If a guy won't look at you eye to eye that could be a sign to just move on.

Next I would say if all he can talk about is himself then he isn't thinking about you. If it is all about him then he will never be all about you.

This next one may seem pretty common sense. Respect. To me this was always important when talking to a guy. Not even a guy I might be dating. I credit my Dad for this. He always showed my Mom respect when growing up and he still does. If a guy doesn't show you respect now more than likely he won't show you respect later. You do not want a guy who will not respect you.

If you have been seeing a guy off and on one sign you can for sure look for is he is constantly not keeping his word? I have seen this with friends who put up with guys who have done this. The guy says he'll call and never does. Says he'll be there to pick you up at 4 and never shows. So on and so forth. Same song just a different verse. If you are not important enough for him to keep his word then he isn't important enough to take up your time.

Lastly, if he even hints that he is in a relationship, such as saying, "we are separated", "we decided we could see other people" blah, blah, blah run for the hills. The last thing you want is a guy who is taken. You also do not want to be hunted down by a mad wife or girlfriend.

I know some of these things may seem pretty common sense. Sometimes where guys are concerned we females let common sense fly right out the window. Next time you meet a guy take these 5 things to heart. If even one waves a red flag to you then it may be best to hit the door running. One thing about it, he is NOT the last man on earth or the only fish in the sea!