7 Dating Tips for Men

How to Get a Sexy Woman

Kitty Stevens
There are 7 dating tips for men that will get a sexy woman to take notice. There is a reason why she isn't staying. You can't manipulate your way into her heart. It just doesn't work that way. Follow these 7 dating tips and see what happens this time when you date a sexy woman.



Dating Tip 1



Do not put pressure on your date. That's right men: those manipulations always backfire. If you tell your date that she has to do this to get that on any subject, she will potentially transfer that into you saying that you use manipulation in relationships. If she were dating you to just "get into your pants", she wouldn't be on a date. She's dating because she considers the dating ritual to be essential. Any woman that feels like that will frown on anyone that uses manipulation because it avoids the traditional path of free will. Let's face it, who wants to be "manipulated into something? It's insulting. So put the brakes on the pressure. Remember guys, no pressure at all in your life towards your dates.



Dating Tip 2



Remember men, less is more. When you show up, it is acceptable to bring flowers. There's nothing wrong with being a gentleman and showing that you care about the woman. What you want to avoid doing though is showing up with a dozen roses. Less really is more when it comes to dating. Save the grand display for your one-year anniversary or Valentine's Day. The same applies for the rest of the date. Don't talk a lot. Don't sit there and make you and her feel awkward, but also don't chatter on like an "oaf" either. Compliment her a bit, but don't carry on about how she is fantastic. She will think that you are not an honest person. 



Dating Tip 3



Show your funny side. No, don't act like the "class clown". Just show your funny side. Women love a sense of humor. Show your funny side and she will laugh and have a great time. When she thinks about the guy that she enjoyed spending time with, she will remember you. It worked for a guy with me once; it certainly could work for you as well. 



Dating Tip 4



Don't use the "tricks" that men share with one another. You know, those tricks that you once read in some book called " How to Get a Woman in Bed", or "How to Score Every Time With a Chic". Women are smart. Don't be rude and dies-respectful. It will backfire every time. I remember this one guy friend once telling me "I just don't get it?" I asked him what happened to him. He replied, "my girlfriend started playing games with me." I asked him "well, did you play games with her?" He nodded and I shared the idea that "what goes around comes around." I told him to not play games ever again if he wants a relationship to last. The woman will only respect you when you respect her.



Dating Tip 5



Be an original. Consider what is unique about you. Calling all engineers: this one is for you. There is a type of woman that loves an engineer. You say "what?" Yes, there are women that love the engineer type of man. I should know. I am one of them. So, consider what makes you unique. Find a woman that values that and the date will go really well. Do yourself a favor though; don't date a "ditz". You won't be happy then. Be original and true to yourself. It will go a long way with the right woman.



Dating Tip 6



Watch for tricks from the woman. There are little tests that they have to see if you are worth their time. These come in the form of direct questions. Even if you feel like you are dealing with the inquisition, answer them as truthfully as you can. The woman is testing you. This is a good sign. I repeat men. This is a good sign. It means that she is considering you as a potential "keeper". Put your best foot out there and don't let that foot fall into your mouth.



Dating Tip 7



This one is one of the most important tips. So listen up men. Do not talk about other women. Competition will only attract cheaters and game players. Yes, they do actually exist. You don't want those women. Put all of your attention on her when you are together. If you find yourself thinking, "oh that's just insecure." Stop thinking that. That is not insecure. You are behaving in a manner that is dis-respectful of her. It never works either. The woman looks at this type of behavior and thinks that you are an insecure looser when you behave like that. They also think that you are dis-respectful. Neither of those is good. Neither one of those will lead to a second date and a relationship. Even if she cuts you some slack and gives you a chance, this issue will come back up. If you fail that point then she will dump you like a bag of trash.



If you find yourself thinking: "I'm so sick of women and their games," then leave and get a man as a date. No wait, gay men act even worse. Well, I guess your just going to have to deal with it. Dating is a process. If you want to get a woman in your life then you are going to have to follow these tips. Rare exceptions do apply and this offer is void in certain places. In general though, it applies to almost all women. Follow these 7 tips to get a sexy woman. Who knows, maybe this time, she will actually stay.

Sources:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXVP0ooUcKM

Published by Kitty Stevens

Kitty holds a Bachelors Degree in Science with minors in Spanish, French, History and Music. She went on to become certified as a Reading Specialist and has worked as a Bilingual teacher for over 12 years. H...  View profile

  • Do not put pressure on your date.
  • Do not talk about other women.
  • Watch for tricks from the woman.
Women will have a checklist of things that they need from a man. If yo get it right, then your date will become your girlfriend and stay this time.

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  • J P Whickson3/21/2011

    I had to laugh at the last one. On one of my dates when I was wild and free, the man described how horrible his ex was and then listed the things she did. He listed everyone of my bad habits and some I thought were good traits. Needless to say, I ended the evening by telling him he would not be happy in a relationship with me.

  • Martin Kloess3/17/2011

    i'm a man and some of my gneder need more than 7, read latest limerick - still, well written piece - thank you

  • Kitty Stevens3/16/2011

    It's always wonderful to see a success story. Good for you two.
    :)

  • Donald Rothra3/15/2011

    Great article. I've got my lifelong mate and she can manipulate me in any direction she wants me to go.

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