7 Reasons She Hates You

Sometimes, you two just don't have the right personalities to click. Sometimes, there are conditions outside of the relationship that prevents you from being together. And sometimes, you suck.

You stink.

Personal hygiene is important, whether it be to attract a girl, prepare for a job interview, or speak at a presentation. No matter where you go or what you do, making sure you take care of yourself is very important to not only maintain a healthy level of respect, but also to be able to get what you want. The bank won't give you that high interest rate if you're wearing a sweater full of holes in it.

Likewise, a woman won't want to be around a guy who just doesn't know how handle the basics of his public appearance. Even IF you are a great guy, you make her look bad in public. And yourself. She doesn't want to take care of an extra child.

You are incapable.

What do you have to offer? That is what every woman is thinking when they're looking at a potential other. Yes, he's physically attractive and he has a commanding presence, but if under all of that fluff he's nothing but a bag of bricks, why should I date him?

In order to be able to think of a relationship for the long term, women (and men alike) always want to know what can happen in the future. If you're a guy who just doesn't seem to have everything together, then you shouldn't be wondering why women stay away from you like the plague. Having a woman isn't just about being in a relationship for the sake of it or to have someone to constantly talk to, it's about being able to provide for that person when they are in need.

And if all you did was graduate from Kindergarten because you could break the graham crackers along the lines, then it's time for you to do something with your life.

You are ARROGANT.

In order to attract a girl, you need to be a bit flaunting at times, but you need to pair that with humility and respect. This doesn't mean just hide your accomplishments verbally. If you are overly confident as a person, your actions will speak for themselves. Realize that you aren't the best at everything you do, and learn to understand how to improve and work towards improvement. Hence, there is a fine line between confidence in your abilities and confidence in your ego. Someone who is arrogant loves themselves a bit too much, a major turn off for women who wants you to love HER. Women can see right through you. And if they can't they will find out soon enough.

You are overweight.

A lot of men aren't particularly ugly, they are just overweight. When you are overweight (or fat, as most people call it), you really aren't giving yourself any breaks. Being fat as a child is okay, but when you're 20 and you're stuffing chicken wings down your throat like there's no tomorrow, it's time to make some adjustments.

Men who can't control their weight have problems not only on the dating scene, but in the workplace as well. It doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means that you have trouble disciplining yourself and caring about your own health, and it comes off as a bit irresponsible.

You are irresponsible.

You're talented, tall charming, and you make lucrative amounts of money. But when it comes to knowing your responsibilities away from work or play, you don't really seem to have a good grasp on things. You may put work over your family, or partying over studying. You don't treat others with respect, and you leave people alone after you use them. This is worse than being overweight, short, or any other physical shortcoming, as it stems from a deep moral problem. Learn to know what is right and wrong, and stop being so spoiled.

You have no sense of urgency.

You're funny, smart and great to be around. Now what? Women will really enjoy being around you for the first period of your getting to know each other, but after a couple of weeks, she will find that you have no sense of when to do what. If you have a test tomorrow, or if you're behind on your bill payments, you should be paddling like crazy to make ends meet or satisfy your duties. Yet even with all of these things going on around you, you still find time to smoke a cigarette and watch cartoons. No matter how talented you are, you won't be putting it to good use if you're not using it.

You're boring.

Ok, so you're not funny or great to be around. Work on this. You're intelligent, knowledgeable, and rather good looking, but you just aren't the life of the party. You have a hard time sparking up good conversation topics or making a girl laugh. This is always something that can be learned, so try your best to become an interesting person. And, even if you're NOT rather good looking, your personality will shine through, overshadowing any doubt in your mind that you can't attract this girl.

The DNA of any two humans is 99.9 percent similar in content and identity, so it's not impossible to attract a girl and start a relationship if you try hard enough. Even so, remember that sometimes, you have different backgrounds, making you different people. Be yourself, be caring, and understand how to be interesting. You wouldn't want a girl to exhibit any of the above characteristics, now would you?