Here are the most common 7 things that men want to know, although they don't dare to ask about.
1. Do you ever think at your ex boyfriend after you broke up with him?
And "do you ever think" means "would you get involved again in a relationship, although you ended it?" Sincerely, it's not very easy or indicated to do it, but I think that the general answer is "Yes"; we think more or less often to our ex boyfriends.
P.S. If you're the new lover...relax, we never think at our ex;
The truth: We think once in a while;
2. Do you consider the chat a form of cheating on someone?
That's difficult. If you talk with a friend, nobody gets upset. But if a man talks with a nice lady who has a web cam, being less dressed, then...it's about cheating. It's all about how far you go with this innocent chat.
3. Can you live without sex?
I don't think we, women, would die without sex, but we surely wouldn't feel too good. It's a myth that women can live without sex and men don't.
I think the truth is somewhere in the middle. If women have good sex, then they will surely desire to do it as much as men.
The truth: No, we can't live without sex; it's about the instinct of conservation of the species.
4. Why do you take so much care of us?
Because you can't do anything by yourselves...this would be the official version. But I think that it's also about a dose of maternal instinct, because somebody must take care of you, so we try to do it as better as we can.
And we don't annoy you just because we like doing it (well, sometimes we like it), but because we want you to be better, more...you know.
The truth: If you'd change your behavior when it's needed, we shouldn't repeat you this all the time!
5. Why women flirt with single men?
We check the territory, as you do. If you haven't found out yet, the sexual revolution decreed freedom of movement, so we move the troupes on the battle field in the way we like.
It's not the case to make this a tragedy. You know very well that we look but we don't touch.
The truth: Yes, we flirt sometimes...but it's not something bad! It is good for self esteem!
6. Why don't you say anymore "I love you?"
Oh, so you got at the stage in which, although you have a long term relationship, you don't receive anymore the daily "I love you"?
Do you ask "why"? Well, we said so many times the magic words without being rewarded properly...so we given up.
The truth: because we're waiting for someone who deserves our love.
7. What that story with the ring?
It's easy; the ring means a commitment, a way to show that you care about us, that you won't leave us after the first serious quarrel.
In addition, the engagement / marriage are often the synonymous of a stable relationship, and this is what we want.
The truth: the ring means the recognition of our efforts and a new phase of the relationship.
Published by andra picincu
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10 Comments
Post a CommentGreat truths! I'm loving your relationship articles!
No one wants to learn that they are still thinking about their ex, whether they are a man or a woman. It undermines your current relationship, especially once you are married and should have moved on.
Sophie
Interesting, Andra.
very straight words, nice research on men psychology ;)
Very eye opening piece!
I always especially like your articles on relationships. I really mean it when I say that I learn a lot!
Nice work as far sex and love is concerned both man and women's feeling are same.Nice job,thanks andra picincu
Lots of depth to this article. Thanks
Lots of depth to this article. Thanks
There is so much truth in this article! :)