8 Reasons NOT to Date (Common) Military Men or Women

8) Military obligations often changes a person's values. Repetitive actions lead to changed beliefs. Time away from religious buildings stray a person's character.

7) A busy life means less time for you. If they're always deployed on missions, you'll be very lonely.

6) Aggressive and apathetic mindsets and attitudes develop in military personnel. Get someone who is gentle and cares about you.

5) Many military personnel drink heavily, often every weekend, just because they can. This goes all through the chain of command. You will want someone who is with it, mentally.

4) They work for the government, so they will often give in to many streamline ideas that promote their own benefits, but don't think about the benefits of others. You deserve someone who is kind-hearted to everyone.

3) They end up making good deceivers, since they often deceive their chain of command to get out of things and deceive their subordinates to prevent crabbiness. If they deceive others, they will deceive you too.

2) Many military personnel blow their money on stupid stuff, like videogames, fine dining and gambling, because the income they're getting is "secure" in their eyes. It breeds complacency, and they often become unreliable.

1) Many military personnel adopt the idea that if their partner is more than 100, 500, or 1,000 miles away (depending on how far away they are), that it's too far away for their partner to "know". When they say "know", they mean knowing about other relationships they can have and get away with.