8 Tips on How to Act on a Date

It is not uncommon for men to be nervous on a first date. Surely, he is likely to feel

some butterflies in his stomach. It is important that men understand that this is

natural, and should accept their emotions. This helps break the ice and makes you feel relaxed and comfortable. What sort of attitude should put up on that day?

1. REMAIN YOURSELF

Be simple and smart in your dressing. Be open-minded. Your major objective is to make the woman feel desired, safe and inspired. The goal is to show her that you are completely comfortable with yourself. In other words, you accept and love yourself. Remain your true self. Remember that only a person who loves himself has the ability to love others.

2. ALWAYS BE ON TIME

Punctuality and early confirmation is the key here. Call her well in advance to

confirm the date. Call her Friday evening to confirm the Saturday night date.

Secondly pick her up at the said time to avoid anxiety and frustration, arising from

delay.

3. MAKE HER FEEL AT HOME

Make her feel comfortable. Complement her. Tell her 'you look great' or 'this dress

looks great on you.' Do not overdo it and always mean what you say from the

bottom of your heart.

4. BE IN CHARGE

You are the man so you have to make the plans. Do not ask her what she would like

to do; make the reservations in advance and take control of the situation.

Let your date relax and enjoy herself and just follow your lead. If you are planning

for a surprise, give her a hint of where you intend to take her so she can dress for the occasion.

5. CONCENTRATE ON HER

Do not stare at other women. Listen to her before you begin to answer her questions. Let her talk her heart out, do not interrupt her.

6. MAKE THE CONVERSATION INTERESTING

Ensure you make interesting instead of asking conventional questions like 'what is

your favorite music or movie or 'who is your favorite celebrity.' Avoid common questions, try and go for deeper ones.

7. STAY IN THE PRESENT

Keep in mind that you are dating this woman right now and you need to enjoy every

bit of this moment. So live in the present and leave the future to the future. Just

know that things will be right once you start living in the moment.

8. END THE DATE WITH SOFT WORDS

In the end, tell her that it was great meeting her and thank her for coming if the date was dud. But if you think she is the one, walk her to the door and tell her that she should have an amazing night.

On your first date, dress smartly, be punctual and remain yourself, take the lead,

concentrate on her, make her feel comfortable, keep every discussion interesting and have great fun. If you keep these tips in mind, you'll be the most popular man in town!