A 5-point Analysis Program for Your Relationship

Like many Americans, we are all somewhat lazy when it comes to our personal lives. We expend so much time and energy into our education, field of work and obtaining a "HIGH STATUS" that we don't care for our love lives. If it's not here, now and ready to go, it gets dumped. If it can't function and operate as fast or as slow as we want it gets trashed. Just like finding the right career choice, home and educational institution love/relationships can take a lot of work! It's an ongoing process that can take your whole life; you'll never stop learning about it. Throughout my field of study which allows me to communicate/interview with many different people, I have developed what I believe might be the key for the future. A 5-point analysis program for the typical busy man and woman having trouble trying to weather the storm. Apply these concepts the way they are, or vice versa.

Analysis #1 Communication: This is your bread and butter of any relationship, without it you'll go nowhere and fast. Man: Please learn to start paying more attention to your sweetheart. Try listening more and giving feedback instead of not caring. Don't blow her off or ignore her, she's only trying to voice her feelings. Woman: Please learn that sometimes Man needs time to think and that he doesn't always have an answer for everything. Man and Woman: Learn how to communicate more effectively.

Analysis #2 Sexual Encounters: Sexual intimacy and compatibility has become an important factor in the majority of relationships. But I bet you didn't you know that not every couple is sexually compatible. Man: You are not God's gift to woman in the bedroom, you are just fortunate enough to have a mate who is compatible with you. Do not be fooled by your skills because everybody can have a bad night, just be sure to not take it personal when it does and square blame. Woman: The only way you can get what you want is if you make it clear before the sound of the bell. But do not give up on your mate because of several bad nights. Sex is a skill and it takes work to be sexually compatible with another. Man and Woman: It's not a race to see who can get theirs first! Help, coach and teach each other.

Analysis #3 Compromising: This one is a real doosy! Man: You can't always have it your way. Woman: You can't always have it your way. Man and Woman: If an agreement cannot be made, whatever it is, pick something that will.

Analysis #4 Before the bell: What is the first thing you are supposed to do before you begin any test in high school or college? Look it over thoroughly, and ask questions, right? I can't stress enough how many times we people don't speak up enough about what it is that we want. Man: Every being has it's own purpose and prerogative. If its truly fun & sex that you seek please admit it at the start. You'll be surprised at how much time and energy you can save by being upfront. Woman: Please do not be quick to dismiss an honest guy. If a man is truthful enough to tell you what he wants from the start, he has just saved you a possible lifetime full of grief. Also, do not assume that "things may change later on." Yes they may, but will they? Man and Woman: We live in age now where compatibility is a top priority in many of our lives. We just often refuse to do the work required. Be honest with yourself, if you think it's worth it, go for it!

And Finally,

Analysis #5 Outside interferences: Be mindful of the friends in your life. A friend from yesteryear brought along with you into a relationship is acceptable. However, meeting a friend and exchanging phone numbers can spell possible danger. I know that girl is fine and sexy, I know that guy is handsome and dazzling but don't do it! Man and Woman: Temptation is a very hard grip to loosen. You can lose everything you worked for just by giving in and going over to "help tighten a bath faucet." Your home, kids, love of your life, the dog, the family lexus, the headphones in your night stand etc… One night of fun isn't worth a lifetime of hell.

Think about it..