A Cup of Cappuccino

Silver and Gold I Don't Have But.

mmog37
It was very cold that morning, and I knew that I was going to have to face that cold wind once I left the comfort of my warm seat as the BART train pulled in to my stop. I took comfort in knowing that I had a few dollars in my pocket and I was going to stop at the cafe along the way and grab me a steaming hot cappuccino to help warm me up. The walk from the Bart Station to to the cafe was only a few short moments but the cold wind made it seem a lot longer and further than it really was. As I walked into the cafe I tried not to enjoy the warmth too much because I knew in just a few moments I would be right back out in the frigid cold air.

I stepped up to the counter and ordered my cappuccino, paid for it and hesitantly headed for the door, reluctantly thrusting myself back into the brisk winter air. I was concentrating on how many steps it was going to take me to make it to my building. I was already imagining myself cozy and warm on the elevator ride up to the office on the 17th floor. My concentration was broken when I was approached by a young man, his appearance was run down and unkempt. He couldn't have been past his early twenties, but he looked old and tired. Suddenly my momentary discomfort of the cold seemed petty. He asked me if I had any spare change so that he could get a room at one the motels on that street. I felt bad for a moment because I had just spent the only dollars I had on me on that cappuccino, but as I thought about it those few dollars really wouldn't have helped him with his real problem.

I didn't have any money to offer him, but I didn't want him to think that I was blowing him off or just giving him excuses either, so I made sure I looked him in his eyes and I explained that I had just spent my last few dollars on the hot cappuccino I was holding in my hands. He said he understood...but I couldn't help but feel that I should do something for him...so I stood there in the cold and talked with him for a few moments trying my best to let him know that he mattered and that even though people might pass by him or ignore him there on the street that He was still important and that he still had value and worth...as we talked suddenly he just broke down...the fact that someone was talking to him and treating him like a person was apparently too much...

With tears in his eyes this young man explained to me how he ended up on the street. He was raised in a Christian home and had decided to rebel against what he had been taught as a child. Like the prodigal son, he had turned his back on the principals and truths he was raised with...he cried as he told me how he let his wealth and the pursuit of drugs separate him from the very things he loved ...how he was once well off (and in fact had a wife and a mother constantly asking him to return home) and now he found himself humbled to the point of having to beg for enough change to get a room to get out of the cold.

I stood there and cried with him as he told his story. His heart was so heavy and he felt like he had gone too far for even God to love. I informed him that He was wrong about that, and that God loved Him even still..and in fact He arranged for our meeting. I shared the Love of God with Him, reminding him of those things he was raised with and sharing God's Word with Him...it was worth every bit of standing in the cold to see his face light as He realized that He could go back home... we prayed together right there on that cold corner in San Francisco...he was so happy and excited he grabbed me and hugged me...and I was so happy that he was restored that I hugged him right back, even though the dirt and stink of living on the street was still on him...I could see the brightness on his face and countenance. I couldn't help but go into "dad" mode as I gave him some last minute instructions and sent him on his way home...and like the man at the gate he took off leaping and jumping on his way home...a prodigal no more.

The cold wind was no longer a concern of mine, as I walked down the street, my cappuccino was no longer hot but that was okay, as I got on the elevator headed to my office the door closed and I heard someone say..."was that a friend of yours?" They must have seen me talking to and hugging the young man. I wish you could have seen the puzzled looks on their faces when I said "No, I've never seen him before today." as I walked out of the elevator.

I shared this with you today to remind you that sometimes it's the little things we do, I know a lot of people look for some big thing to do like preach or sing in the choir or start some big ministry...but sometimes it's those little small (but not insignificant moments) that we can take advantage of to share,show, and shine the light and love of God. As you go about your busy day today...I challenge you to become aware of the small things you can do that will go a long way towards making life better you and for someone else.

Published by mmog37

Husband, father of four, business owner, urban homeschooler, writer, artist and motivational speaker. Always busy and always moving. Still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.  View profile

  • Sometimes it's the little things we do that make a difference in another person's life.
Many people struggle with believing that there is a God because many of those that say they know Him...don't look or act or sound like Him at all...

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  • Linda Ann Nickerson5/23/2008

    "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.''" (Matthew 25:40, NIV)

  • Shamontiel5/22/2008

    I like to read articles about people who simply get it. I wrote an article called "Do Homeless People Make You Feel Guilty?" and somehow it made it to the front of AC. As much as I liked that, the responses I got about how homeless people are lazy, on drugs, should get a job, and such was depressing. It was like people could not see the human being passed the person being homeless. There are definitely some slackers out there, but I believe more just hit a hard place. Nobody ever knows a person's background so to automatically assume that a person couldn't make a mistake or have a situation beyond their control is just unfair. Although I probably wouldn't have hugged dude, I would've given him my cappuccino. If he burst into tears though, I'd probably cry with him too. I cry whenever I see someone cry though, so I don't know if that counts.

  • Kim Linton5/21/2008

    A very insightful and moving piece. My husband and I have ministered to quite a few homeless people over the years and it's always been such a blessing to us. Some of them have even lived with us for short periods of time. Like you said, it's the little things. Just being open to the opportunities for service that are presented to us everyday can make a huge difference in someone's life.

  • mmog375/19/2008

    :) Thanks all, mwtsaginaw: you bring up some very valid points...in this case I followed my heart, there are times however when I am approached for money and I will offer service or tangible goods instead...if the person refuses anything except money then I know that the odds are very strong that they are trying to con me. For the most part I at least take the time to listen and gather enough info to find out one way or the other. SFaloon, I share the same prayer...I kept my eyes open looking for him but I never saw him on the streets again after that day...hopefully he went back home.

  • Tyler Mills5/19/2008

    Compelling story

  • mwtsaginaw5/19/2008

    I admire what you did, and maybe this is because I am in a smaller town, but many repeat panhandlers are observed. No I do not look down upon them, but having three shelters here, all are within a half-hour walking distance. Some may observe that it is better to give to 10 who are dishonest rather than overlook one who is truthful. This has always been a difficult question for me. Knowing many people in need, and having limits myself, seems if I have some extra money it should go to them even if in a way that is indirrect, such as paying a guy down the street to do my show sometimes when I could do it myself. Again, that is a tough question. And especially if these approaches are made in front of a store, it could hurt that business if street people decide that is a good place to make these emergency requests.

  • SFaloon5/16/2008

    You are such a blessing. I pray the young man has gone home and is rebuilding his life. Thank you for sharing this.

  • Sheri Fresonke Harper5/16/2008

    Nice article--we have a day labor office in town and we're often asked to provide a meal, which I prefer over handing people money. Love the picture and quote :) Sheri

  • Louisa3645/16/2008

    This is a beautiful and thought provoking story. Good to know you and thank you for this reminder :)

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