A Fat Lady Gets Her Revenge

Carol Roach

Previously published in Examiner


The following is a testimonial of an obese woman in Montreal. The pandemic medical condition is sweeping across North America as well as Montreal. New Research shows that young children who are obese will are at risk for diabetes and other medical conditions associated with obesity.

Obese Montrealers can seek help through dieticians, such programs as weight watchers and obesity clinics.

Obesity Therapists in Montréal

Weight Watchers in Montreal

Overeaters Anonymous in Montreal

Diary of a Fat Woman

Laura, a 32 years old pretty young divorcee with two children had a different solution. She came to the association to meet someone, but because she was 100 pounds overweight no guy gave her a second look. She served on the board of directors and she went to the activities with her kids. She was stronger than I was at the time. She went on a diet and lost the weight. Suddenly all the men took notice. She rejected them all and told them straight, "You didn't want me when I was fat, so I don't want you now."

I couldn't lose the weight, I tried diet after diet but I just could not keep to it. I got cravings so bad that I couldn't sleep. All my emotions were tied to food, I ate when I was hungry, when I was happy, when I was bored and the more rejections I got from men the more I ate. I ate when I was stressed out and I ate when I was depressed; food had always been the silent but deadly comforter.

There were the pop psychologists in the association who felt that I was so big because subconsciously I wanted to distance myself from men. They were so wrong. I had wants and needs as a young divorcee just like anyone else. This seemed to surprise some of the men when I told them I was looking for a boyfriend. . A few of them thought that I was just a good person who devoted myself to the association to make other people happy. They didn't realize I had needs of my own.

Published by Carol Roach

Carol Roach holds a masters in counselling psychology. She worked as a therapist at the Douglas Hospital in Montreal before becoming a professional writer.Carol is the author of the book Picking Up The Piece...  View profile

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  • Michele Starkey11/2/2011

    Third attempt - then I'm calling it quits!
    Good article - sad but good. cheers :)

  • Michele Starkey11/2/2011

    For some reason - I cannot 'see' the comments I'm leaving for you - hopefully you are getting them! cheers

  • Michele Starkey11/2/2011

    I think society puts too much emphasis on looks. cheers

  • Gayle Crabtree10/30/2011

    Carol, I am sorry that your needs were overlooked. As a fat person I know how often this happens and can sympathize. People can say 'diet and exercise' until they are blue in the face. That doesn't change everything. Your honesty is appreciated.

  • Mary Oberg10/30/2011

    Well done,Carol!

  • Judy (Montelauro) Harrell10/30/2011

    I eat for all the wrong reasons too! I am gradually working my way out of this kind of behavior through prayer and introspection. When I finally achieve victory, I will definitely share it with everyone! I am very blessed to have a man who tells me I am just the way he wants me to be! Maybe that is not so good though because I need someone to push me more so that I will live longer!

  • Mike Powers10/30/2011

    Outstanding! Thanks!

  • Han Van Meegerin10/30/2011

    Glad you let them know what you were looking for. Silence doesn't get the word out.

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