A Good Neighborhood is Hard to Find

When my husband and I moved from the big city, it was for the purpose of finding a good neighborhood in which we could feel safe. Unfortunately, our former neighborhood was chosen for the "pop culture" appeal rather than the quality of life that could be had living there.

Before we chose our new neighborhood, we spent time as tourists in towns we were interested in, going back to the towns that we found most appealing. When time allowed, we visited during each season to see if we found the climates tolerable. The weather in the town we settled in had over 350 days of sun, with an average temperature of 60°F, and a generally arid atmosphere.

The next step for us was to notice the neighborhoods in which we toured homes. Was there general cleanliness along the streets? In the yards? In the driveways? What was the general condition of the vehicles in the neighborhood? Were the people who were out and about comfortable with their surroundings; able to make eye contact and general greeting to friends as well strangers without apprehension? What security features do the residents utilize? Homes shackled in security bars may turn some off, while others may find them comforting.

What most of us may take for granted is something I made sure to take note of: how is the local law enforcement regarded by the residents of the city? Are people scared of them, find their presence comforting yet non-restrictive, or is there a sense of tension whenever police presence is visible? The results could mean the difference between living in the midst of a pressure cooker of potential civil unrest, and having the peace of mind that those who swore to serve and protect us will do just that, without oppressing the citizens of the town.

Any other factors to consider are relative to the individual or family who are relocating. Schools, distance from work, shopping, daycare, etc., will factor into what neighborhoods would suit yourself, your family and your lifestyles.

Unless there are factors which would dictate otherwise, finding a new neighborhood to live in should be a study in patience, diligence, observation, and a willingness to be an investigative reporter when necessary. Spend time in the city or town your want to live in, at different times of the year if possible. Notice the stature of the surrounding environment in the neighborhood as well as the outlying area. Take note of how the citizens interact with each other as well as authority figures such as the local law enforcement. Finding a new neighborhood is an investment that should not be taken lightly nor rushed. The sigh of relief you breathe when you have found your new home will be well worth the effort.