A Guide to the Social Customs and Traditions of China

The Chinese people are courteous and friendly, but they do have some social attitudes and traditions that are quite different from what Americans are used to. However, by observing a few do's and don'ts, such the following, you'll find them easy to get along with when you travel to China.

-The leadership and government of the People's Republic of China is held in the highest esteem by its citizens. Therefore do not, under any circumstances, make a critical reference to either, even in a joking way.

-The differences in U.S. and Chinese school systems, business practices, etc. are normal topics of conversation in China. However, don't be in a hurry to participate unless you are really knowledgeable on these subjects. You may find that your guide is better informed than you are.

-Do bend over backwards to be polite. All the people in China are considered to be of equal merit. Talking down to a waiter or porter, or being loudly demanding of any service personnel, is considered inexcusably ill mannered. So be patient. Avoid arguments. Keep cool, no matter what the aggravation.

-Don't tip. Tipping is not required in China and, in fact, is considered an insult. However, a warm smile and a sincere thank you for courtesies extended or services performed will be most appreciated. At your last meal in a hotel, in lieu of tipping, your tour leader may invite the kitchen staff and service personnel to gather for a round of applause from the tour members. Join in.

-Don't be surprised if the Chinese people you come into contact with are openly curious about your appearance and behavior. You'll find that you can draw a crowd just by your presence, especially if you're taking pictures. When you visit a facility such as a school, commune, factory, etc. you may very well be greeted with applause. The proper response is to applaud in return.

-Do ask permission of any person you wish to take a photograph of. Simply showing your camera to an individual or group will usually get a positive or negative reaction. Be guided accordingly. If you are using an instant camera, it is a nice gesture to give the first picture to the subject.

-Don't make any comment or inference of a sexual nature. It will be considered offensive. Also, any form of physical contact, except for shaking hands, should be avoided.

-Do be on time for all appointments. Punctuality is a virtue in China. You will find that your Chinese hosts at any function or visit are always on time, and you should follow their example. The above guidelines are not intended to be the last word on traveling in China. You will get additional information from whatever tour you sign up for.

Source:

Herzberg, Larry and Qin China Survival Guide: How to Avoid Travel Troubles and Mortifying Mishaps 2008