A Look at the Different Types of Female Orgasms

Jasmine Starr
An orgasm is a emotional and psychological pleasure that is caused by prolonged sexual stimulation. Women can have two different types of orgasms, vaginal and clitoral. Orgasms by clitoral stimulation is the most common. Many women can't have vaginal orgasms. Oddly enough, there are many women who don't have orgasms at all. Have you ever read about women faking it? Don't laugh, because many women do. As I was doing my research I was blown away by reading that many women don't have orgasms. Some women think they may have one from time to time but aren't completely sure. When a woman has a combined orgasm from both vaginal and clitoral it is called blended orgasm. Blended orgasms don't happen very often.

The clitoral orgasm takes place when the clitoris is massaged slowly and is well lubricated. Vaginal orgasms is caused from the pressure being applied to the G-spot. This happens usually when the tip of your partner's penis touches it. The G-spot is on the anterior wall of the vagina, about two inches from the opening. There is a big difference between the way these two orgasms feel. That is because the major nerve connected to the clitoris is different from the one connected to the G spot.

All women are capable of having orgasms, even multiple orgasms, unless you have a medical problem that prevents you from having them. Most women don't know their bodies well enough to have orgasms. Ladies learn your bodies and learn how it reacts to certain things so you can have mind blowing orgasms. There are some factors that cause women to have orgasms. For you to get the most out of your sexual encounter you need to free your mind from stress, tension, and any problems you may have. You can't give your full attention to what's going on if you have loads of stuff on your mind. Therefore having an orgasm is impossible. If you wait longer than two days to have another sexual encounter it will be harder for you to be aroused and you are less likely to have an orgasm. However, if you do have sex again before the two day period is up you can get emotionally involved in the sexual encounter much easily. This is because your body is still warmed up emotionally and physically.

Take time to learn your body, what it likes, how it likes things, and so on. You need to feel comfortable with yourself to get the most out of your sexual encounters. Some women are very self conscious of their body and that puts a real strain on your pleasure. Try taking a hot bath and relaxing while thinking about your man. Also try reading a romantic novel or watching a movie to relax you and get you focused on your partner. Sometimes us ladies just need to block everything out and the only way to do that is to focus on something sexual. Men often feel that they are not enough for us, that they alone can't turn us on and in some cases that is true, But in most cases it is not. A woman's body reacts totally different from a man's body. Therefore we need extra help from time to time to get aroused. Women often worry about the bills, the kids, work, and their financial situation which is the main reason we have trouble focusing on our sex life. That is where the psychological part comes in. When we are psychologically stressed we can't focus on our lover. Those of you who have never experienced an orgasm, don't lose hope. Your time will come.

Published by Jasmine Starr

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  • Evan Nassau 11/19/2010

    I have recently written two articles on what women should or shouldn't do if they haven't had an orgasm with their boyfriend:
    Should I tell my boyfriend I haven’t had an orgasm? -> http://www.evannassau.com/woman-having-an-orgasm-pleasuring/ and Should you fake an orgasm to not hurt his feelings? -> http://www.evannassau.com/faking-orgasms-not-hurt-his-feelings

  • lol 10/4/2010

    To elle: what, did his dick fall off or something? I don't get it. But more seriously, be realistic. When writing an article like this, if she didn't generalise and make assumptions, it would be too long and unclear.

  • elle 10/31/2009

    You make some damaging generalizations for those women who do not fall under all of the categories that you speak of. Avoid assumptions like the fact that my partner has a penis in your next poorly edited, grammatically incorrect piece of crap.

  • M 5/13/2009

    A lot of this sounds like hooey to me. I'm pretty sure that the idea of the "blended orgasm" has been debunked.

    Also, I know from personal experience that the "two day limit" is pure baloney. That may be true for some women, I will admit, but for at least some of us, a longer way merely leads to longer anticipation, and a more powerful orgasm.

  • Catdog 4/2/2008

    Absolutely wonderful and truthful article. I believe we have to be in tune with ourselves in order to achieve, yes, that includes orgasms and all things alike. Great read!

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