A Man's Guide to Four Small Moves that Will Score BIG Points with Your Lady

Karl Withakay
You want this lady to fall head over heels for you right? Well I'm going to give you just four things you can do that will really impress her and get you some major points. It's not that difficult. I'll show you how.

Just Because Texts.

You're lady needs regular and consistent communication with you for this relationship to progress. If you work an eight hour shift for example, send her three texts in the day. Just a simple, "Thinking of you". "Missing you" or "I love you" is just fine. If you haven't said the "L" word yet substitute "I love you" with "Looking 4ward to seeing you tonight". Feel free to send her an email too asking her "How is your day going?".

Do Some Things That She Digs

I had a girlfriend that told me this once, "On thing I love so much about you Karl is that you're up for anything. You don't care if I take you clothes shopping with me, or looking at girl stuff. I can take you anywhere with me and you're fine with it." She was right. I loved being with her so much that as long as I was with her, it was good. It didn't matter what we did. I have news for you dude. She doesn't sit there and watch the Ultimate Fighting Championships with you because she digs UFC. She does this to spend time with you. Do the same. Go shopping with her without rolling your eyes or sighing. If she's going to the spa, go with her and get a massage while you're there.

Share Your Space

I'm not saying to move her into your place but do some little things. I don't drink beer but a girlfriend I had once did. I always kept a cold six pack of bottles of bud light in the fridge. I don't drink Dr. Pepper either but she did so I always kept a twelve pack of Dr. Pepper in the fridge too for her. I recall suggesting to her that she keep a hair dryer under my bathroom sink.

Work On Your Memory Skills

Seriously the more ridiculous the better. She may expect you to remember the location and date of your first date with her but go a notch above that. Celebrate something like the six month anniversary of the first time you cooked her dinner. Buy her a romantic greeting card on the one year mark of the first time the two of you made love and have a bit of a celebration. If you have trouble remembering, write some things down.

All of these things will impress her and are fail proof. Doing these four things will set you apart from every other man she has been with (in a good way) Get started. Do what you have to do. Buy a day planner, write some stuff down, go shopping at a woman's clothing store with her. Stock the fridge with her favorite beverage(s). Get to it my friend and good luck.

Published by Karl Withakay

Karl is a full time 43 y/o Singer/guitarist/songwriter. He is also a self proclaimed computer geek. He builds, fixes and modifies computers. He is a US Navy, Gulf War Vet. and has worked as a CNA, a Parame...  View profile

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  • Robert Lee Alford12/18/2010

    Very nice ideas.

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