A Message to All Those Involved in Adult Work/Pornography

"Around 10 percent of all adults who engage in viewing pornography feel that they are addicted. These are self-reports of men and women who cannot stop viewing pornography. The consequences of pornography addiction (dependence) may not always be clear, but let me list a few consequences that I have personally observed.

Separation and divorce
Being unavailable to children
Job loss
A fiance ending the relationship
An increased tendency to argue
Lack of trust in relationships
Sexually acting out
While many argue that pornography is a matter of freedom of speech, they are missing the point. Pornography hurts people. Do you really wonder who it hurts? It hurts marriages. It hurts employers (see #1 below). Finally, it hurts the individual who becomes addicted. Those caught in this addiction are likely to be depressed and feel out of control. They will not be as focused in their relationships with others.

If you aren't anti-pornography - you might want to consider the social implications that pornography is having upon all of us. It is time to wake up and realize that pornography is destroying far too many good men and women's lives. "

He then wen on to quote the bible, to back up waht he was saying. atthsi point I drew the line. So I replied:

You are completely out of line and way focused on the wrong issues.

First off marriage is an institution, something created by man; not man and woman, just man. It has carried through the ages and been used as a major factor in how we are judged. People are pressured into marriage even today, it may not be arraigned marriage like the old days but it might as well be.

You know why marriages are failing, because it's not natural. and we are pressured into finding someone, that we don't take the time to find the right someone,

and we judged each other. men resent their wives, women, hate their husbands you really think this is all because of porn?

So many people have been duped into believing that they must go and make it "official" this is entirely wrong.

The entire institution is based in the bible, a highly flawed book ,and here's the kicker, there was no real marriage in that book, so how were couple recognized as spouses?

They would see a priest (one from the tribe of Levi) to get permission and blessing. the man would do this. then he would go to the woman's family and basically buy her, of course she was only acceptable if she was a virgin.

When they had sex, in the bible it's referred to as "and he knew her" so when a man knows this woman, by having sex, she becomes his wife.

A man could do this with as many women as he could afford to keep. Solomon had 700 wives, and 300 slave women, and this was cool with god. All the key people in the bible had more than one wife; you really need to pay attention.

As for Jesus, how would Joseph ad Mary have been recognized as husband and wife, unless he knew her. so she was not a virgin, she was until they had sex. re read the freaking text she did not conceive without sex.

Jesus was even recognized as the son of David because his father, Joseph was a descendant of King David. Why Jesus was so importantly recognized as the son of David is because Solomon lost his mind, and Jesus was sort of like his replacement, the final blessing for Solomon was given to Jesus,

First it was going to be given to David but out of jealousy he sent his friend to die. so he could have his wife or something,
so it was passed to Solomon, who also lost his mind, so then it was passed to Jesus. Also, Mary was from the tribe, of Levi, a priestess. Joseph was from the tribe of . Guess which tribe Jesus was considered be from? . The logic is retarded but its all in there.

That's it. so technically there's no such thing as premarital sex for all you Christians out their and this is biblical. as for me i don't believe in the bible. WHY?

Because it was written by madmen, who felt a need to control the world, we didn't have a secret service and surveillance cameras everywhere like we do now, so they had to make sure everyone was on their best behavior. how? by making them believe that they were always being watched, that all their actions were being judged by a higher power, one who would punish them fiercely, for not paying 10% of their earning to the tribe of Levi,(the priests, it so happens Moses was from that tribe, hmmm) and following the other commandments.

Now back to the issue; you really think porn is the reason people are getting divorced? what's wrong with you man. Sex is a beautiful thing even if it's paid for. In a way it's always paid for, even from the beginning, a man had to buy his virgin wife from her parents. Did you ever stop to think that if we were to take a more mature and modern approach to sex there would be less sex crimes, diseases, and unwanted pregnancies? Porn has nothing to do with that. It's our approach to it,

WE TABOO IT SO WE CAN NEVER TALK ABOUT IT, IF WE NEVER TALK ABOUT IT OPENLY, OR STUDY IT PROPERLY AND TEACH EACHOTHER AND OUR KIDS RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT, THEN OUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS ABOUT IT WILL NEVER MATURE, THE RESULT? WE STAY IN THIS

PRIMITIVE
STATE

ABOUT IT!!!

The only reason families have these issues about members of said family working in the adult industry is because we continue to judge each other based on these archaic standards set forth by power hungry madmen.

Guess what buddy. It's people like you who are the reason these families break up. Because you make these people feel insecure, like they are evil, or doing something immoral, or as if they are less than you. It's just a job that happens to really feel good. but we as humans or should I say god fearing Christians, (yeah right) look down on the sharing of pleasure and take every chance get to share pain.

What about fathers or mothers who work in an action movie? all that violence? you really think TV has anything to do with violence? sure blame it on TV, so I guess the people who initiated the civil war, or all those religious wars watched too much violence on TV huh? more people were killed in the name of god than for any other reason, this same thing that drives you here every day to repost your babble, is the same thing that tells Mr. Farley down the street to molest children, or makes a dog talk to some guy named Sam and tells him to go kill all these women,

This is they same god that says kill all those who defy me. You really think god wrote that? Man wrote it, impotent men who needed to control the world, and nothings changed.

Stop shifting the blame to everyone but yourself. we as a people are responsible for our own actions. Not the TV. Not porn. We choose to believe in a god that wants us to kill cattle every time you accidentally see your mother naked. Or accidentally do work on the holy Sabbath, or eat pork

.
This same god wants you to kill homosexuals too; did you know that? Yes it says that in the bible, it's disgusting, but it's there.

There's a huge misconception that Moses came down that mountain with 10 commandments. That is wrong, there were approximately 623 commandments. That's right buddy try reading them sometime they are ridiculous. they take up the entire book of Leviticus. (Again a reference to the tribe of Levi, one of the children of

, or a Jew)

. Now I know what your thinking, "well that was the Old Testament, and Jesus said all you have to do is treat others how you want to be treated right?

Wrong. He never did away with the commandments, he reinforced them

Every day people were challenging him but he was well studied. Just like today you have lawyers that want to interpret the law anyway that suits them you had one back then that said, hey Jesus, (if your so smart) what's the most important commandment. This was the attitude of the question, he was challenging Jesus, but Jesus in a microsecond outsmarted him:

He said. "Love the lord thy god with al your heart and soul, and love your neighbor as you love yourself" by neighbor he meant all those around you (from the children of

of course)

Now that was a trick answer. Because god said according to Moses "if you love me, keep my commandments" do you get it? Keep all the commandments, if you love god. That's what Jesus said, these guys wanted to know which commandments it was okay to break. They got their answer. It would also seem that love has a condition according to god. If you love me, you'll do whatever I say, that seems conditional to me.

The only thing that Jesus changed was how they obtain forgiveness for their sins, because these guys were lining up the sacrifices, before they even committed the sin. So he said, now the only way to get forgiveness is through me. Today if someone were to say this to you, you'd probably, think they were kind of arrogant but whatever.

Why would god want you to mutilate your penis for him? What's the point of that? medically its easier to keep a circumcised dick clean but why would an all powerful god who can grant super strength to people like Samson, then suddenly take it away cause he got a haircut and let him and thousands of people die as punishment? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard and yet it's in the bible.

Stop believing this ancient book written by these mad men, this book is what's keeping back progress, stem cell research for example, because its unnatural it's against god.

Really? What about coca leaf, aka cocaine. It's a perfectly natural plant, that the natives of
Columbia
eat the way Americans drink coffee, and it has the same effect as coffee when taken in that form. But because the leaves don't have Pfizer printed on them it's EVIL.. Ohhh.. evil plants. what's the rule about that?

What about canibus, as a plant it's almost identical to oregano under a microscope. They are related plants actually. and when you eat it gives you a euphoric giddy feeling, but we demonized that too. It's natural.

This could go on and on, but maybe you nee to stop believing in the ranting of a madman and actually look to the future.

If that book was really created by the creator of our universe why does it not make mention of life on other planets? or even that their are other planets with environments like earth? it mentions UFOs that's right UFOs are in the bible. If you were to draw an actual angel, as they are described in the bible, they look like science fiction monsters, not naked boys with wings like these priest like to fondle. hey maybe that's why so many catholic priests like little boys because to them they are fondling angels eh? Perhaps.

In the bible it describes a flying roll, within a roll each turning a different direction with eyes around it. (duh lights). they also called them chariots of fire, and billowing smoke, actually what they saw really closely resembles what they had on that movie independence day. Read the description, and go see that movie again.

Now a roll would be a type of bread right, now put yourself in the shoes of the people from that time period. the only type of vehicle for people to travel in was called a chariot. and if you saw that in the sky and that type of bread was the only terrestrial thing that resembled it, then you would say look it's a flying roll.

The angels were described and having multiple faces, and hoofed feet, and tails, and within their wings were a thousand eyes (more lights? something kind of E.T.ish perhaps?) Not little naked boys.

Even though they describe what I believe to be extra terrestrial, rather than angels, why is it they make no mention of other planets?

Because it was written by man before man had telescopes. That's why, they had no idea what was beyond the clouds. They thought the earth was flat, if you follow the logic of the bible the sun revolves around the earth. In fact everything In the universe revolves around the earth according to the bible. That's the way it's described, why would our creator tell us that?

Have you seen a picture of the Milky Way? We're not even the center of our own solar system, nor are we the center of our own galaxy, we. 9earth) is on the outer edge of one of it's "blades" an insignificant spec. So why would our creator tell us we were in the center of it all?

It also says that any time you seen the sun and the moon in the same sky it would be a sign of the rapture. Yet, I see that every other day. Where's the rapture?

Even if the bible were true, only 144,000 are chosen you really think you are one of them? That's for the Jews buddy and these Hassidic dudes with the curls or the guys walking around with half bras on their heads, are not Jews. The real Jews are long gone, just like the real Egyptians, and the Aztecs absorbed into conquering races. you know why the Jews you see today don't acknowledge the entire bible? Even though it's their book? Because the bible tells you that these Jews would not be in the

land
of
Israel

for 2000 years.

They couldn't possibly be the right Jews. The bible also says when the real Jews come home the world would be at peace.

And look, if anything these are the guys responsible for our war. Cause we are protecting them. Just think this war could be over tomorrow if we were to evacuate the land and just nuke the shit. Or don't evacuate it I really don't care. Nuke it and everyone that thinks god gave it to them it's that very attitude that fuels those daily bus bombings, suicide bombing, they all think god gave them that land, the Palestinians think it's theirs and the "Jews" think tit's theirs why not just do like Solomon did and cut it in half?

I'm telling you the book is wrong and your views are misguided. Stop, put it down. set those inhibiting thoughts aside. Free your mind. The bible, religion, is nothing more than a prison for you soul and you mind. It's rather ingenious. You give these people 10% of all your money and they tell you how wicked and evil you are.

This world won't make it until people realize that shit just isn't gonna cut it.

You might say after this that i don't believe in god or whatever and you might be right. to tell the truth i have no clue what's out there. but I'm willing to admit that I have no clue and that all of my conceptions should be washed away and I'm just winging it.

I do know by the end of my journey here i will not have held back because of how people judge, or because of fear of being judged by some prick in the sky who wants me to kill cattle, non Jews, women who sleep around, homosexuals, and mutilate my penis for him.

Back to the beginning:

S
eparation and divorce?

Being unavailable to children?

Job loss?

A fiancé ending the relationship?

An increased tendency to argue?

Lack of trust in relationships?

Sexually acting out?

What's the cause of it all? Nothing. Everything. Us. There's no one thing to blame here it's a multitude of things starting with marriage itself and the bible. All things in nature will eventually revert to their natural state; this is proven fact for a 3 dimensional universe like the one we live in. So if marriage after marriage, just keep falling apart perhaps its marriage that's un-natural, or just THAT PARTICULAR PAIRING OF PEOPLE.

Everyone's lives every day are constantly under judgment by outside forces no one can ever truly be who they want to be.

That's un-natural - that's where you should start looking if you want to solve these problems