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A Warning to Alimony Recipients in Florida

Alimony May Be Reduced or Terminated If an Ex-spouse Allows a New Partner to Move In.

Jim Stillman
Florida has long recognized a divorced party's right to receive alimony following a divorce. Typically, the award is made to the former wife, but, in some circumstances, the former husband may be the recipient.

Section 61.08, Florida Statures, provides that the alimony may be "rehabilitative or permanent in nature"; the former primarily an award for a limited period of time to allow the divorced person to obtain education or training or, perhaps, counseling to the end that he or she can be self-supporting and no longer in need of alimony.

Permanent alimony, on the other hand, is usually awarded and is payable until the former wife re-marries or dies. (Parenthetically, alimony can be awarded continued after the person having the obligation dies; it can be made an obligation of his or her estate!) Typically, an award of permanent alimony is made when the marriage was of long duration and the former spouse is unlikely to be self-sufficient in the near or distant future. For example, a former wife who has been a homemaker, without career, over a twenty- or thirty-year marriage while the husband pursued education and career.

The statute provides for a number of criteria to determine the amount and duration of alimony, including the respective needs and income of the parties and the standard of living to which the ex-spouse has become accustomed.

Often, a divorced woman, recipient of permanent alimony, will have a man move in with her, without marriage, possibly to ensure the continuation of alimony or, equally likely, continued social security or pension benefits which might end upon remarriage.

In 2004, the Florida Fourth District Court of Appeals wrote in Reno v Reno that "cohabitation may justify the elimination of alimony depending on how the new living situation has impacted the alimony recipient's financial condition and the continued need for alimony."

Meanwhile, the state Legislature has amended the statute to provide, at Section 61.14(1)(b)(1) that a court may reduce or terminate alimony if there is a finding that, after the divorce, the wife has entered into a "supportive relationship" with a new man. The first of the criteria to be assessed by the Court is whether there is a supportive relationship between an
The statute goes on to state matters to be considered by the Court, namely, the parties' conducting themselves in a manner that evidences a permanent supportive relationship, including, the period of time that the recipient has resided with the other person, the extent to which persons have pooled their assets or income or otherwise exhibited financial interdependence, even the extent to which the alimony recipient or the other person has performed valuable services for the other.

In Raul Zeballos v Albab Zeballos, decided in March,. 2007, the Fourth District Court had before it a case where the former Mrs. Zeballos was awarded permanent alimony, after the children had emancipated, of $1,000.00 per month. Raul moved for a reduction or termination of alimony on the grounds that his former wife was living with a Mr. Camp and had been for five years. The former wife had no source of income other than the alimony, was not employed, and, it was apparent that Mr. Camp was paying some or all of their bills. The trial court reduced the alimony to $350.00 per month; the Appellate Court further reduced the alimony to $1.00 per month.

The Court quoted the legislative intent: relationships do exist that provide economic support equivalent to a marriage and that it would be unfair to allow the ex-wife to take advantage.

The moral of this story is that, if you are a recipient of alimony, do not allow a new partner to support you. If you are paying alimony, watch carefully to see if your ex-spouse is "shacking up" with a new partner who is paying the bills.

Either of these circumstances can have a major impact on finances!

Published by Jim Stillman

Retired from Florida Department of Revenue after 25 years.and retired New York attorney. I am a liberal with regard to social responsibility and, likely, a Libertarian otherwise.   View profile

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  • Steve Hoye 7/11/2011

    @Sonnynite go f*** yourself you entitled c***.
    Too many men are reduced to a packmule after years of being a good dad/husband
    supporting the likes of your laziness. Shame on you!
    Permanant alimony has NOTHING to do with the child support we are willing
    to pay and be responsible for.

  • Robbed 3/5/2011

    The cohabitation law does not change anything. Florida is a no-fault state and Judges rule on the need of the petitioner with ability to pay of the respondent without proof and perjury is not against the law in family court. The respondents ability to pay is based on gross income only. Respondents need to support their self is not considered. My wife left me for another man and now I support both of them and his adult children. My ex told the Judge that she lied at the final of living alone and still needs the money without proof and her boyfriend of 14 years can not support himself. Lawyers make a lot of money litigating and are interested in making only. I was ordered to pay all fee's based on ability to pay without proof. She refused marriage counseling and mediation. No reason for divorce was given. The only way to stop paying Alimony is to leave the state and have the garnishment stopped at that state. Alimony does not have the protect laws as child support has and is not

  • Jim Stillman 10/25/2010

    Two suggestions: (1) get a young aggressive attorney and (2) check out prior comments and the sites mentioned.

  • curious123 10/25/2010

    Does anyone know who to contact in florida if you know someone is cohabitating but lying about it to continue getting alimony???

  • cd2010 3/13/2010

    perment alimony is fine if spouse has never worked, miine has alway's worked, unfortuneility after 20 years i was the main breadwinner, not now after divorce, boyfriend moves in, has full time job, brings his kids with him and has lived with ex for almost 4 years , now i have lost my job working for half of what i was making, and i can't get a judge to see my side...my ex's business is all cash if you know what i mean, with lies in court, about no support , yet vactions , dinners at nice restaurants he is " freeloading" him ,his kids, and ex, and my kids i am supporting them all where is justice!! i can't get it changed

  • Susan 10/26/2009

    There is help and hope in ending unfair alimony. Go to REFORMALIMONY.com and join the fight. We have a bill going before the Florida legislation in 2010. Everyone can help. Write your state senators and house members and let them know that you support alimony reform.

    Susan
    brevardchapterleader@gmail.com

  • Susan 10/26/2009

    There is help and hope in ending unfair alimony. Go to REFORMALIMONY.com and join the fight. We have a bill going before the Florida legislation in 2010. Everyone can help. Write your state senators and house members and let them know that you support alimony reform.%0D%0A%0D%0ASusan%0D%0Abrevardchapterleader%40gmail.com%0D%0A%0D%0A

  • ffffdddd 9/9/2009

    never get married, all women are gold diggers looking for a meal ticket.

  • fred 8/17/2009

    there is no justice if your a man in florida the man gets fxxxxx and the women gets rich. most women collect alimony and have boyfriends that are paying their bills. the state needs go get off their asses and check on these bitches.

  • sonnynite 7/13/2009

    guys...be responsible for your actions..
    quite snivling and crying around ..pay up or dont have children..keep your pants up and you wont have to worry..ok..suck it up guys..

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