A Woman's Top 5 Needs from a Man

It has been a debate since the beginning of time, what women need from a man. From my many years alive, and all the women I have known including myself, we all seem to pretty much agree on the top five needs we want form a man. So for you lucky men out there that are smarter enough to read this, you have got it made!

1-REALLY Listening-

NO, this does not mean while your watching football, playing video games, surfing the net, or texting your buddies. This means complete undivided attention. It means looking at her straight in the eye in order to really see how she's feeling. This means reflecting back what she said, and actually caring about what she said. It means giving her the exact attention you would want. if it was something important to you.

2- Cuddling-

NO, this does not mean you are going to get sex. Sorry guys! This means the warm, fuzzy, kind of kissing and hugging that satisfies the deepest recesses of her soul. NO, I said you are not going to get sex out of this. However, done often enough I guarantee she will be in the mood a lot more often. So hold up for that cuddlin' session, and you may reap your rewards later on down the road.

3- Respect-

Yes, that's RESPECT just like Aretha Franklin sang about. A woman that feels respected by her man is on cloud nine, and you will be too. Nothin' says lovin' like RESPECT!

4- Caring-

Caring about what is truly important to her is soooo very important. I cannot stress this enough. A woman sees your caring about her wants and needs as the icing on the cake. Better even yet, support and help her with the things that are important to her, and you will be in her graces forever. Can't go wrong with this one!

5-Romance-

Last but certainly not least is romance. A woman cannot just be dragged to the cave by her hair and thrown on the floor for you to have your way with her. Okay, maybe once an awhile. Women like the whole enchilada. From the candlelight dinner, to the dancing, to the soft romantic music. Guys, it gets us in the mood. So, get out your best 007 suave and sophistication and go for it! You won't be disappointed.

There it is the Big Five. If you do all of these five you are sure to have success with your lady, and if you don't, keep repeating #2 until she gets it! Or is that until you get it?

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