A Wonderful Life with Your Soulmate!

Soulmate is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship,love, intimacy. Today, it's quite hard to find your soulmate, but not impossible. And when you do? It's a Wonderful Life!

Love is not possible without friendship or intimacy. Friendship is the first step. Finding a friend that you can confide your innermost thoughts, desires, secrets and fears to can be accomplished. However, it should also be reciprocal. Two hearts and minds are better than one right? Of course they are!

When fear arises, who better to talk to than your soulmate? Either your fears will be qualmed, or if they become reality, than your soulmate is right there by your side to help you through. When your soulmate has fears? Talk about them, deal with them and jump right over them, right by his side.

Desires are sometimes out of reach, but if they are able to be grasped, who better to help reel them in but your soulmate. Reciprocate when your soulmate has a desire. Once that line is cast, help pull that desire in, catch it, grasp it and hand it over. The ultimate satisfaction is felt on both ends.

Affinity refers to a "kinship of spirit" characterized by high levels of intimacy and sharing. Simple things matter most sometimes. A night at the movies, sharing a medium popcorn and medium Sprite. A walk after dinner to the Ice Cream Parlor, sharing a small vanilla ice cream cone. A day of swimming at the beach, stopping at John's on the Vineyard and sharing a Lobster Roll.

Lying in bed every night, "spooning" like two pieces of silverware, sharing the days thoughts, accomplishments and defeats. Intimately, silently communicating by breathing, holding hands, touching toes and finally falling off to sleep together.

With a Wonderful Life, sometimes there is a downside, but the key is not to let it take over. As the old saying goes, "When life hands you a lemon, make lemonade". Well in this Wonderful Life, our refrigerator is stocked full of Homemade Lemonade!

Relationships are hard work, if you make them hard. When problems arise, deal with it straight on. Dwelling will not accomplish anything but heartache and resentment. Stay focused on the positive and avoid the negative.

Living with your Soulmate can be a Wonderful Life, caring for each other throughout a lifetime, working together to make your dearest dreams come true. Understanding each other and having faith in yourselves, trusting each other with your deepest thoughts.

It's learning a new and more wonderful meaning of the word "togetherness", being proud of each others accomplishments, but willing to share disappointments as well. It's never being lonely or afraid of tomorrow because of the strength you derive from each other.

It's being in love with life and placing a special value on each moment. It's being together through years that are filled with cherished memories, never long enough to hold all the tears or all the joys. It can also be a humbling experience, and a tremendously powerful statement of hope.

A Wonderful Life with your Soulmate is a journey of shared experience and discovery, which can be a source of great spiritual strength. Learning about each other as you learn about yourself.

Looking for a Wonderful Life? Then follow these steps:

RISK. Feel so deeply and desire so strongly that you are not only willing to be uncertain sometimes, but also to take risks. Have a passion so moving, that you are willing to give of your very selves one to the other. Ignore limits and imagine far beyond every barrier. Be as bold as you are gentle. It's alright to be nervous, which allows another into your very heart, but push that fear aside now, so that both of you can pass through and go where others can never go, and there you will find incredible riches.

PLAY. Be good to yourselves, for when you nurture your bodies and your spirits, you tender the best thanks for the gift of life. Keep laughing, especially at yourselves and about life. Don't worry about any proverbial balance, for when you truly recreate, there will be plenty of time for work and order.

LOVE. Let this natural commitment continue to now, without impediment or direction. Listen very carefully to each other.Challenge each other, in love, to be responsible.Be fair and demand fairness in return. Plant seeds, provide food and water, but let those seeds become what they are meant to be.

If you follow the steps, then you will not feel rain, for each of you will be a shelter to the other. You will not feel cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other. Loneliness will evaporate, for each of you will be a companion to the other.

That's the Secret. That's the Recipe for a Wonderful Life!

I know, because that's My Life, with my Soulmate!