About Flattering Women and Learning the Art of Insult

What we say and how we say it, as we speak to others determines the type of response, attitude, and tonality we receive from others. Most people learned in some degree how to speak in a variety of social settings. However, the greatest task to master when trying to seduce women is applying the Art of Insult and not to flatter women too much too soon.

The potential seducer would refrain from regurgitating insincere and redundant compliments typical to an anxious man. It's important to note, there's nothing manipulative about this at all; in fact it's just the opposite. Only give compliments to women when it's honest while also adding a light touch of criticism.

The reason for this light touch of criticism is it adds to the credibility of the compliment, and also is a normal part of genuine discourse among peers. Think about it. When we feel most connected with others during conversations, it is sincerity and a sophisticated mixture of humor, criticism, seriousness, wit and satire allowing a connection to happen if at all. The unusually shy and the always-saying-the-wrong-thing type of man attempting the above may have a prolonged trial and error episode, and will probably burn through a dozen dates before getting it right. But when they do...

Of course when you play the art of insult game to seduce women and attract women, there are universal and notorious H-bomb subjects you must stay away from at all costs, like body weight! Many women are just a justification away from bulimia, and you don't want that on your karma. In contrast, it's perfectly legitimate to bring up unusual personality traits or quirky behavioral patterns to your date's attention in a way that's not demeaning, but at least puts them on their guard; thereby taking them out of the Star-of-their-own-movie mind set.

Ultimately, the man seducing women shall avoid conflict at all costs yet still manages to slip in some reality checks to encourage self-reflection on the woman's part, rather than being a man at a pretentious interview spewing off five-cent compliments to his would be boss.

The magic of the Art of Insult when applied to seduce women and attract women, involves the social science of appreciation. A person is more likely to appreciate a compliment from another if they know that same person is very capable of providing criticism, while at the same time creditable in their critique.

From the "How to Seduce Women ebook"