Adult Friend Finder - Guess Who's on it These Days!

Mention the web site Adult Friend Finder and you'll receive three reactions - shudders, gasps or leers. Yes this is a very adult site suited to finding people "a fun" time Yes this is the site appealing to pervs and sex addicts.

Guess what.

This is also the place where ordinary folk advertise their "goodies" and "talents". Your neighbors , your kid's soccer coach , yes even your mayor and/or minister could be looking for a wild night or a discreet time here. That topless vixen advertising her likes and dislikes? She could be the check out lady at your local supermarket. What about that well endowed stud promising all night passion? Try that divorced dad who lives on your corner. You know, the one who shovels everyone's driveways during a blizzard. Anybody from CEOs to garbage collectors are Adult Friend Finder or AFF members. The site is international with listings on every continent except Antarctica. (unless there's a Penguin Friend Finder down there - hmm large fuzzy alpha male into fish and formal wear looking for a big beaked babe for some nude swimming...). You could literally go around the world and find a bed partner or partners to captivate you. Globe trekker never had a more interesting meaning.

Closer to home a friend of mine decided to sign up. Mind you, she's far from being the wild type. Think Jane Austen and teacakes. Yet she had become disappointed with the usual online matchmaking sites. There were too many questionnaires to fill out and besides the guys looked too goofy for words. AFF was way more cheaper with membership pricing starting as low as $19.95 a month. It seemed OK. Well Lady Austen ,as we'll call her for this, did have to weed through the crazies with exceptionally graphic photos.(she saw more than a third year urology student) to find some of the decent guys. Surprisingly enough she discovered a fair amount of widowers on this site. These were men who lived ordinary, rather run of the mill lives when they were married. One was a guidance counselor, another a chiropractor . The first had decided to explore his wild side after his wife's untimely death. He wanted to try things Lady Austen was just not ready for like threesomes and orgies! Here was a quiet guy, a kind of low key Bob Newhart channeling his inner Hugh Hefner! "My wife made me have a dull sex life." he had explained. "Now I can be as crazy and horny as I really want to be!

"Not with me you're not." my friend had demurred and then smartly retreated.

Thank heavens the second widower, the chiropractor, turned out to be relatively normal. Initially she did have doubts because of his profile. His photo cleverly showed his "stethoscope" hanging out. Yet he was a caring dad and still grieving husband., He and Lady Austen go out for platonic dinners full of conversation and surprisingly no sex.. Maybe you can find Mr Right on this website.

My friend and I both wondered if AFF had any widows advertising on it. There were, looking merry , ready for old fashioned romance, friendship and companionship. This made us breath a sigh of relief. No one's granny is mistress of the whip dressed in leather mini skirt and hooker boots. Then again who would go for a geriatric dominatrix? Some old geezer whose naughty pictures resemble an albino raisin?

Besides widowers, my friend has received her fair share of letters from sex lovers. These include married men, usually CEOs looking for fun on the side. (makes you wonder what your boss is doing in his office after hours, doesn't it). Then there are the young studs who don't care how old or young a chick is (Lady Austen is in her late forties by the way). She's received mail from kinky into leather types who have sent pictures of themselves and their leather clad dogs(Is Skippy looking for a hot poodle who's into S&M?) along with bored couples searching for a third party. I had her contact them out of curiosity and for research' sake (all right, we're just plain nosy here). We asked a few simple questions once the ice was broken. We queried about their hobbies that led to questions about their jobs. Turns out there are a lot of grammar school teachers looking to get their kink on . These educators gave a whole new meaning to after school activities. Seems like that sweet scrapbooking on the side school marm loves to walk on the wild side. Occasionally Lady Austen did run into the usual rough and tumble sorts. There were a few bikers and their babes who were up for more than long trips into the country. Yet the majority ran from ordinary kinds like your dental hygienist or everyday salesperson,

What does this say for people in general? Look to the old saying, the one about a tiger hiding in your house cat. Adult Friend Finder brings out anyone's wild side. Even yours if you let it.