Adventures in Lady Land

Introduction
Today, I got home and checked AC like I normally do. To my surprise I had an email from someone who had added me to their favorites. He (assuming based on screen name) wanted to know if men need expensive gadgets, nice cars, and watches to attract women. This is a very interesting and valid question because most guys aren't aware that you don't need those things to get women at all. Today, I didn't comb my hair and I had on a dirty white shirt and blue jeans.

Silence Is Golden
Today my business partner was hanging out in the front of the mall, so I stayed in the shop to keep an eye on things. I had no intentions on doing any phone number harvesting since I didn't have on a clean shirt. There were two girls that were slowly making their way toward our shop. Finally they get there and look around for about 2 or 3 minutes. I didn't say anything, I didn't even offer to help them. One of them walked away from the other and came over and sat in the chair next to me. She starts telling me about some high school dance she is going to and was looking for a specific pair of shoes. I'm not going to lie, she was cute, but 17 is a little young for me. Her friend on the other hand is 18 and that's the one that made the move. While we were talking, the 18 year old friend walked over and sat in my lap like she knew me.

I told the first girl that my partner would probably know more about the shoes than I did, so I told her what he was wearing and where he was at. Her friend (in my lap) told her to go find my partner. As soon as her friend walked out of the store, she sits in the chair next to me and says, "Take my number, we can hang out and do whatever you want." At this point, I fell the need to remind you that I haven't said a word to her. The first words I said to her were, "What's the number?" only to be followed by "What's your name?"

After she gave me her number, her friend comes back in the store because she couldn't find my partner. I had her call his phone and tell him to come back to the store. As soon as he got there, I pointed to the girl that was just looking for him and said, "I got a present for you." She and her friend both laughed and asked my partner about the shoes. Long story short, I'm going out with the older one on Tuesday.

Women Like When You Have Women
I'll keep this one short. Today must have been my day because I managed to get another one with minimal effort. A beautiful mixed girl walked into the store with her two kids, so I immediately offered to help her. I asked her if she was married and she said, "No." So my next question was about her boyfriend to which I also got a no. Then I decided to find out if she drinks, she responded with, "Hell yeah, do you?" Of course I drink, what guy doesn't?

She looks at me for a second and says, "You game up all the girls, don't you?" I looked her dead in her eyes, "Only the cute ones." She laughed and I asked her, "Are you going to give me the number or not? Since you already know where this is headed?" If you have read Part 2 of the Becoming A Ladies Man series, then you know that I just broke the rule about asking for the number. She just looked at me and ignored my question, which is normally a bad thing.

Her next question was, "Do you have a woman?" So I responded with, "I have a few women and I'm trying get another one." Again, she looked at me like I was crazy and asked, "Are you serious?" Yep, I'm serious, so I think I might have caught her off guard. "What sign are you?" For those that don't know, I'm a Scropio (the freaky sign) and told her that. She laughed and said, ok. I pulled out my phone and said, "What's the number?" She gave it to me and told me to call her.

Conclusion
The point of the two stories is that you don't need to look your best to be at the top of your game and attract women. All you need is confidence and an I don't give a s**t attitude about getting their number. If you don't act interested, they will be more interested in you.