Advice for the Boyfriend: 5 Tips for Meeting Her Friends

Michelle Knudson
You can be more relaxed about meeting her friends than her parents. Friends opinions of you are generally important to your partner so please be careful when you meet her friends. Here are five tips for meeting her friends:

Don't be rude to be her friends.

Make sure to be nice and kind. Nothing leaves a bad impression quicker than when someone is rude. Her friends are important to her and might be more important to her than you depending upon how long she has known them. Its one thing to voice an opinion its another to be rude.

Don't be jealous or controlling when you meet her friends.

Jealous or controlling won't impress her friends at all. If anything it will encourage her to dump you. Make sure to not be jealous or controlling of her friends including her male friends. Don't let your insecurities show when you meet her friends or male friends. Male friends will especially notice it if you are jealous or controlling when you meet her friends. Don't tell her how to dress either it will come across as being controlling of her. You don't want to be controlling of her. You don't people to even think you are controlling or jealous so be careful.

Don't dress sloppy.

It is important to not dress sloppy since her friends will give their opinion of you to her. She will listen to her friends opinion regardless of being good or bad about you. Make sure to wash your clothes and don't look sloppy when you meet her friends.

Don't use foul language when you meet her friends.

Talk like a gentlemen when around her friends and male friends. You don't want to leave a bad impression when you meet her friends including male friends. You want to keep your language clean and use complete sentences when speaking when you meet her friends and male friends.

Don't put down everything about her with insults.

Don't be abusive towards her in any way no matter what. Don't put down everything about her with insults. Her friends will notice if you insult her. They aren't stupid. Just be on your best behavior when around her friends. Don't be rude to her either in front of her friends. If you are rude to her in front of her friends then they will say something almost immediately or afterwards about how she should dump you.

Published by Michelle Knudson

Michelle is a freelance writer who has sold and published over 550 articles. Her writing strengths include, business, financial topics and relationships. You may contact her at michelle@michelleknudsonwrite...  View profile

3 Comments

Post a Comment
  • wtf8/21/2007

    Dont be controling WHEN you meet her friends
    Dont be rude WHEN you meet her friends
    Dont be verbally abusive WHEN you meet her friends.

    how about dont be ANY of those things to your girlfriend EVER

  • wtf8/21/2007

    Dont be controling WHEN you meet her friends
    Dont be rude WHEN you meet her friends
    Dont be verbally abusive WHEN you meet her friends

    how about dont be ANY of those things to your girlfriend EVER

  • Todd Nelsen5/8/2007

    "Just be on your best behavior when you are around her friends." This is fine in theory, but it can be so difficult. Nice article. Thanks for the advice.

Displaying Comments

To comment, please sign in to your Yahoo! account, or sign up for a new account.