All Men Are Not Pigs - Book Review for Single Women

You Could Be Searching for the Right Man in the Wrong Places

Kathryn E. Darden
If you do an Amazon search for All Men Are Not Pigs by Kevin Sussman and read the reviews, you will find that Sussman has apparently hit a nerve with readers in a way that really seems to connect with them. From my own reading of the book, it is obvious that Sussman understands a lot of the dynamics between men and women and that he has spent much time listening to his female friends talk about the issues in their relationships. As a man, Sussman also has a good grasp of the male point of view.

Raised in a religious home, Sussman took another path in his dating relationships for a while, so he fully understands his carnal nature, but when he returned to his faith, he began to apply a great deal of thought to spiritual truths and ethical issues about how to relate to women. Sussman implements these Biblical principles as he tries to help women navigate the often treacherous channels of relationships and dating.

Sussman encourages women to get to know themselves better as well as to understand male behavior, motivation, drive and subtle clues. It is certainly an admirable undertaking. A key point he makes is that his female readers could be searching for the right man in the wrong places.

One of the book's highlights is Sussman's interesting verse by verse analysis of 1 Corinthians 13.

However, while one Amazon reviewer said the book's "easy-to-understand thoughts can be implemented by anyone in a relationships," I found some of the writing to be stilted and somewhat convoluted with hard to follow segues from one thought to another. As an example, at times Sussman attempts to apply some principle or another to single women and married women at the same time, jumping from one audience to another back and forth. And as a picky note, the large print text might have better served an older readership.

Pickiness aside, All Men Are Not Pigs offers some interesting insights into male/female dating dynamics. I give it a thumbs up for content and a thumbs down for readability.

Previously published as "All Men Are Not Pigs by Kevin Sussman"

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  • Vincent Summers2/27/2009

    All Men are Not Pigs - written by a man. I wonder what a woman author might have written. It all boils down to treating the wife as one's own body. They only hurt themselves when they hurt their wives.

  • PennyB1/19/2009

    Excellent review.... sounds like a very interesting book.

  • SavinMaven1/16/2009

    I was surprised to see the book He's Just Not That Into You make it to the big screen. I wonder if this will follow.

  • 3lilangels1/16/2009

    sounds pretty interesting!

  • Kathryn E. Darden1/16/2009

    Thanks for the thoughtful comments, ladies!

  • Kay Whittenhauer1/15/2009

    Interesting concept for a book. It's too bad- it sounds like it didn't really pan out, though. Well, maybe someone else will further develop it.

  • Susan Anderson1/15/2009

    sounds like a very cool book!

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