An International Traveler's Guide on How Not to Offend Someone: Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands by Terri Morrison & Wayne A. Conaway

Surely the scandal surrounding American actor Richard Gere and Bollywood actress Shilpa Shetty at a recent charity event in India gave us some pause and made us think, "Dude, it was a kiss on the cheek. What's the big deal?" It may have seemed harmless to some of us in the west, but had Mr. Gere, or one of his Hollywood handlers, picked up a copy of "Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands", he would have known that:

"Indians of all ethnic groups disapprove of public displays of affection between people of the opposite sex. Do not touch (except in handshaking), hug or kiss in greeting." (page 229)

"Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands" is written as a guide for businessmen and women who travel to conduct trade overseas, but this 2^nd edition gem is simply a must-have for anyone traveling to foreign nations. Complete with cultural overviews of over 60 countries from Argentina to Vietnam, "Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands" successfully offers itself as a priceless resource for those participating in the global marketplace.

"Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands" sets itself apart from other travel guides by equipping travelers with quick tips, country backgrounds, local business practices and proper protocol in dealing with the locals. The authors even provide a mini cultural IQ quiz so you can see how much you know before you go.

For example, in reading the text you'll discover:

In China:

Business is not generally discussed during meals, and, since the locals don't usually talk with their hands, they tend to be distracted by those who do.

In Israel:

Regardless of its warm climate, modest attire is always expected. Women are expected to cover up with loose fitting clothing, therefore, pants and pantsuits are not recommended.

Also, traditional Arabs don't cross their legs while sitting; its considered offensive to show the bottom of your foot.

In Mexico:

Conversations occur at close range compared to the American concept of "personal space"; retreating can be seen as rude.

Also, the locals use the "psst-psst" sound to get someone's attention; this is not considered rude.

And where else would you find that the British do not consider themselves European? You'll learn where it is imperative you be on time and what places you can expect to be waiting a long time for your party to arrive.

There is so much more cultural history than you'll ever need to know, and it is all categorized in an easy to find method - by country.

"Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands" also offers strategies on how to negotiate effectively in the boardroom and over brunch. Taking this book with you on your travels can help you navigate through the international playing field - even if you don't speak the language. The more you understand your audience, the better equipped you are to satisfy their needs.

Kudos to Morrison and Conaway who provide the answers to one of the most asked travel questions of the 21^st century:

"Do I kiss, bow, or shake hands?"