Are You Truly in Love with Your Companion/lover on Valentines Day?

"Do you believe in love at first sight?" I will never forget the day I first met my wife, now of 25 years of marriage. "I heard this banging sound?" Not because it was love at first sight? but because she was ironically banging on the counter in the convenience store I was presently working part-time in to earn extra cash at the time to pay my monthly child support!

I walked up to the counter and asked her? "Can I help you?" in an extremely rude tone of voice, because she had made me so mad with her banging on the counter.

"I suddenly looked up at her and realized that she had the most beautiful "Blue Eyes" and smile of any woman I had ever seen in my entire lifetime at the age of 29.

My wife, Donna was 24 years old at the time and had a beautiful body, soft sexy southern American voice, always "Blue Eyes forever", and a tan that a lot of rich men would pay hundreds of dollars just to be with for one night, mostly because she had this "incredible body".

However? To my surprise? She came back the next night in the store and seemed to be a little bit more "Nicer" to me for some strange reason?

I looked directly into her eyes and she looked directly into mine. "Was this love at first sight?" I really don't know? But their seemed to be a connection between our direct contact of facial features, especially our eyes. I politely asked her out for a dinner date for the next day and she kindly smiled and accepted in her beautiful southern Atlanta, Ga. accent voice.

"Now the story gets weirder?" I was kind of nervous at the time during this first date, meaning that I talk a lot whenever I get "hyped-up" about certain events and conversation surroundings with people, especially with strangers. Most of my life-time friends and family members understand this personality trait that I have always had of "continuous talking and never seems to shut-up when I'm nervous around people!".

"Ironically? This beautiful tan bodied 24 year old female calmly sat across the Sizzler restaurant table from me and mostly "stared at me?" While I nervously talked over and over again and just never seemed to "Shut-Up!". "I was thinking? What is she looking at?" Does she like my body or my eyes? (Sex did not seem to be an issue at the time?).

At this age of 29, I was still a pretty good-looking guy. And also the fact that I have always been such a "Nice Guy" to anyone I meet or have met in life. No matter who or whom they are. Ironically? I always talk to anyone that will listen, because I love human beings so much and the fact that "I am a talker in life?"

What was really so strange to me regarding this first date with my wife of 25 years? I started having all these thoughts while talking? "I've known this person my entire life? I've seen this beautiful "QUIET" woman in my dreams?

I want to spend the rest of my life with this person? "I just kept talking and she just kept listening". Our eye contact with one another during this completely sober and NO drinking occasion was truly amazing!. Donna just simply made me feel comfortable, safe and secure in my life as a human being, and mostly "easy to talk too!"

I realized as at the time? I was a female chaser of what was between their legs and did NOT care about anything but sex? This beautiful lady was different for some reason? Her "eyes were so revealing?" The way she looked at me? "I could not shake this feeling while we were dating?"

To make a long story short! After several dates with this 24 year old beautiful female. I finally realized that she is just simply "Quiet?" and I loved her! Had I finally met a beautiful, hard-working, loving and caring woman that really cared about my continuous talking, and loving attitude about people in everyday life?

She finally "Quietly and Softly" stated after several dates in a loving voice that she truly loved me!. ("I still don't know why to this date in history?"). I asked her to marry me and she said "yes!". I will never forget this day until I die!

Beautiful and loving Donna has always been "Quiet" all though our 25 years of marriage! and most of her adult lifetime, until she wants too SOFTLY complain about something to anyone. To this day in her life? I will never understand why such a beautiful, loving and caring young woman at the age of 24, would fall in love in with a man like me "that talks all the time?" during our dating experience.

"Could it be that opposites attract in verbal human nature?" In other words? As her husband throughout the years. I always talk and she is always "Quiet around other people?" Although, she has always respected what I have to say. And vice-versa whenever this beautiful and loving person has finally got something to say?

"The entire room of people suddenly stops and listens, including me?" to what Donna Chambley has to say! Most of the time it's not much! However, her verbal words mean a lot of what she is trying to express for anyone that cares to listen? Now days my lovable and truly caring wife is an expert cake decorator called donnasdesignercakes.com located here in Douglasville, Ga. USA.

After 25 years of marriage, my wife Donna still has the most beautiful "Blue Eyes" and smile of the day I met her! "She's still quiet at times?" Unless she wants too correct me or others about something.

Trying to find the "correct mate" is ironically based on eye contact during your mating procedures that you have for one another. "Look into this persons eyes while you are making love or talking, and you will find the answer of true love."

Thanks for reading,

Phillip Chambley.