Aromatherapy for Lovers

Aromatherapy has been used for thousand's of years to increase fertility and enhance libido in men and women alike. The term aromatherapy was coined by the French chemist, Rene-Maurice Gattefosse in the 1920's. Aromatherapy refers to the science and holistic therapy of blending and using essential oils to treat the body on both emotional and physical levels. Essential oils have both psychotherapeutic effects as well as physiological effects on the body and work through the olfactory and central nervous systems. The olfactory system directly links our sense of smell with the limbic system in the brain that controls emotions. Sexual problems can be aggravated and actually caused by underlying emotional problems or negative feelings. Both essential oils and the olfactory system working together can help our bodies connect our emotional feelings with our physical feelings. On a physiological level essential oils can heal and strengthen reproductive health, thus increasing fertility in those trying to conceive.

From sensuous massage and luxurious baths to creating an exotic atmosphere with candles and diffusers. Essential oils can set the stage for sexual satisfaction, longevity, increase fertility and boost reproductive health. As well as help with impotence, frigidity, premature ejaculation and other common sexual disorders.

Essential oils should always be purchased from a reputable health food store or retailer. High quality oils are best and not to be confused with fragrance oils, which are synthetic in nature and do not hold the healing properties of essential oils. The oils should be used with a carrier oil when using in direct contact with the skin. Essential oils should never, under any circumstances, be ingested or inserted internally and should never be applied to the genital or eye areas. Always be kept out of reach of children and pets. Caution is advised if you are pregnant or nursing and you should contact a qualified aromatherapist in assisting you with formulations under those circumstances.

For baths, use 20-30 drops of any combination of oils. To make a massage oil use 2 oz. of a carrier oil (like almond oil) and 15-20 drops essential oils. You can also add a few drops to a diffuser, candle or lamp ring to set the mood.

There are dozens of essential oils that can be used to promote fertility and enhance your sex life. Here is an overview of the most common & widely available oils.

Basil- An erotic. sweet and spicy aroma. Used for seduction, fertility and enhancing pleasure. It is also used for mental and physical exhaustion and can help with weariness. Stress can cause possible infertility or " performance anxiety" sexually.

Bergamot- A provocative lemon, floral scent that can enhance one's mood. It is uplifting to the spirit and useful in the relief of tension or worries.

Black pepper-Spicy and warming. Black pepper will arouse and excite. Also gives the user stamina and renewed vitality.

Chamomile- Very sweet and mild. Very calming and good for relaxation and to bring peace to the user.

Clary sage- A mild sedative and a very calming oil. It induces feelings of well being and euphoria and can help alleviate fears and anxiety. It is also effective to use to restore low estrogen levels that may lead to fertility problems in women.

Frankincense-This oil is deep and rich. It will help heighten awareness and bring openness to your relationship. This oil is a uterine tonic and will help with regulating menstrual cycles.

Geranium- Uplifting and promotes emotional openness. It is useful for enhancing emotional intimacy.

Ginger- Spicy and warming. It is used to boost vitality and enhance sex.

Lavender- Sweet and lightly floral. This oil can help with pelvic infections and blocked reproductive tubes in women. Overall, a calming oil that leaves th promotes fertility and leaves the user with a sense of peace and relaxation.

Patchouli- Reminiscent of the 60's "love children" & Grateful Dead tour, this oil is not just for hippies! A nice, warm, woody, musky scent. Very uplifting and good for using to lower one's inhibitions and increase desire.

Jasmine- Sweet,floral, heady. An exotic scent. This oil will bring warmth and peace to your relationship and intimate experiences. It has been used for centuries to attract and keep one's affection. It will help with anxiety issues and lack of confidence.

Neroli absolute- This oil can help with opening up oneself and the lines of communication with your partner.

Rosemary-Calming and almost woodsy. This oil will help in promoting female fertility by increasing the circulation to the uterus.

Rose Otto absolute- Rose is a very pricey oil, but has been used for thousand's of years. Cleopatra used milk and roses to seduce Mark Antony. Opens the heart. Rose is beneficial to both males and females in boosting fertility.

Sandalwood- Erotic and sweet with a woody aroma. This oil promotes emotional openness and increases one's sensuality. Also useful for impotence and frigidity.

Sweet Orange- Warming, uplifting and sweet. This oil will inspire cheerfulness.

Tea Tree-clean smelling and sharp. Tea Tree oil will help open blocked reproductive tubes and help with pelvic inflammation.

Ylang Ylang- Sweet, heavy, exotic, floral oil. It is used to induce a calm feeling. Helps with sexual dysfunction.

Not only can aromatherapy increase your fertility, essential oils can bring intimacy and excitement into your sexual relationship. Try experimenting with a soothing aromatherapy bath and a sensual massage with your sweetie and see what develops! The best part is that you can personalize the oils and play with the scents to your preference.