Astrology & Romance: The Worst Matches for an Aries

Aries is known for passion, enthusiasm, and the ability to try anything at least once. Those with an Aries sun sign or an Aries rising are the self-starters of the zodiac. They can get just about anything started and as long as the project is interesting and stays exciting, they can finish quickly. In relationships, Aries tends to be very demanding. They like constant stimulation and activity, yet they need a certain amount of independence. Sexually, they are very passionate and creative and they know how to turn on the charm with little effort. They don't understand when you don't follow their advice and if they have a dead-set opinion about something, nothing will change their mind. It's your fault if you just don't get how smart they are. When your plans go awry, you'll listen next time. This is the attitude of an Aries.

Aries does not match well with every sign. Here are a few signs that it is better to avoid when choosing a new partner:

Cancer and Pisces just don't quite understand Aries' blunt demeanor. Without intending to, Aries will give opinions and advice which come off as overbearing and mean. Cancer will tend to withdraw and Pisces will be moody and hurt. This leaves the Aries scratching his or her head, wondering what went wrong. Unfortunately, Aries may react by accusing Cancer and Pisces of being too sensitive and emotional, which will further alienate their partner. Cancer may try to accommodate the Aries at times, suffering inwardly. Pisces, if pushed too far, might just decide the relationship isn't worth it and disappear altogether.

On the plus side, both Cancer and Pisces are willing to let Aries take the reins. They are sentimental souls and appreciate Aries' ability to take charge and get things done. If you are looking for a feminine nurturing energy, the kind of person who will make you chicken soup when you are sick and pack you food and toiletries when you mention you are going on a trip, Cancer will not disappoint you. Pisces is idealistic and noble and makes you want to believe in fairy-tales. They have this deep ability to dream. If Aries is willing to put aside the need to get things done yesterday, they can benefit from Pisces great love for humanity and nature. Aries may need to help Cancer and Pisces to take better care of themselves emotionally as these signs are prone to give selflessly to others and may get hurt when taken for granted.

Scorpio will not show if Aries has hurt him or her. This can be dangerous at times because Scorpios will not forget if Aries goes too far in giving criticism. However, Scorpio, more than Cancer and Pisces, can take Aries' blunt tell-it-like-it-is attitude. Scorpio prefers honesty and directness and will give a lot of respect and support to someone who is direct. The thing is that Scorpio tends to hide feelings. When Aries meets a Scorpio, they'll be totally charmed by Scorpio's sensuality, charm, and knowing looks. In bed, they make fabulous partners because neither is intimidated by the other and both can take it farther than other signs will go. Aries can probably handle Scorpio's inner fire and anger better than other signs, but it will probably take Aries by surprise because Scorpios often show their nicest, sweetest side at the start of a relationship and reveal their dark side later.

Whereas the drive for control will be on the surface between an Aries and another Aries, Scorpio will tend to manipulate Aries in order to achieve goals. This can work sometimes because Aries will assume that he or she is in charge (and Scorpio will not disagree), but when Scorpio has been pushed too far-watch out! Aries would do best to curb his or her tongue and be careful what is said because Scorpio will pull it out at an unexpected moment and throw words back in Aries face. Scorpio doesn't mind your blunt talk when it comes to other people (chances are, this water sign will laugh with you), but if you say something which threatens a Scorpio or someone that the Scorpio cares deeply about, they will never forget it. Some how, some way, Scorpio will make you regret what you said or what you did and don't expect that it will happen any time soon. Scorpios have long memories and a lot of patience when it comes to revenge. This relationship works best as a fling or perhaps between an attorney and client, but you really need other planets working in your favor for this to work out.

Taurus is sensual, which Aries will appreciate. The problem is that Taurus moves too slowly for the likes of Aries, who needs constant stimulation. Aries will enjoy Taurus' ability to make money and keep it, but will not appreciate being told how to invest his or her own money. Taurus won't always appreciate the fiery Aries' ability to rush headlong into new projects or to take big risks. If you are married and have children, this could definitely be a big bone of contention as Taurus will want to scrimp and save and make family decisions with careful planning and preparation. Aries will dislike being penned in or told what to do. In business, this can be a good match as Taurus will be practical and grounded about Aries' plans and goals, ensuring that they will last over time and bring a profitable return.

Capricorn and Aries are not the best mix. They can work as business partners, but as lovers, they are bound to butt heads. Capricorn is just as controlling as Aries, and infinitely more moody. Aries will not understand Capricorn's occasional depression or why Capricorn insists on focusing on the past rather than staying focused on the present. Aries can teach Capricorn how to achieve goals more swiftly, and Capricorn can show Aries how to plan long-term goals.

Sexually, Capricorn is likely to be more reserved and won't like Aries' inclination to do it anytime anywhere. Capricorns (and Virgos) are likely to prefer closed doors and preparation before becoming intimate. Because Aries likes to be number one in a relationship, Aries' ego may get bruised in this relationship when Capricorn shows more interest in a pile of charts and contracts than in Aries' assertive kisses. It will confound Capricorn that Aries refuses to live by rules and regulations. Capricorn thrives on structure while Aries can't stand to have things predetermined and ordered. In the end, unless other planets are favorable in the two astrology charts, Capricorn will decide that Aries is too unpredictable, flighty, and demanding and Aries will conclude that Capricorn is stuffy and boring.

Virgo will tend to have a similar reaction to Aries as Capricorn. Virgo is another sign which thrives on order and structure. The expression "there is a place for everything and everything in its place" was no doubt coined by a Virgo. Virgos are not inclined to be spontaneous and Aries is all about impulse. Virgo has strict notions about who, when, and how sex can happen and Aries will jump into a sexual encounter without any forethought or planning. If Virgo is at Aries' house and it is a mess, chances are Virgo will insist that the bedroom is cleaned up before any clothes come off. On the plus side, Virgo can show Aries how to be more practical and methodical and how to make rational choices.

Like Gemini, Virgo is excellent at communicating and will try his or her best to understand Aries. This is not the same as agreeing because many Virgos have a stubborn streak and will not do anything that goes against their code of logic. Virgo can really benefit from Aries' playfulness. Both signs have the ability to be childlike in the right circumstances, so they could have great fun if Virgo is willing to relax. Virgo can be a bit aloof, so Aries' intense pursuit will probably be quite flattering and stimulating (as long as the Virgo has an interest in the Aries). Because Virgo and Aries have entirely different ways of looking at the world and of relating to sex and romance, this connection works better as a friendship than a committed relationship.

Aries may like the sensuality of Taurus, Scorpio, and Pisces, but will probably become bored over time. Virgo's and Capricorn's need for rules will probably drive Aries a bit batty and Cancer's emotional needs will become burdensome after a while. These relationships take a lot of patience and commitment on the part of Aries, qualities which Aries is not well known for. However, they can work. Also keep in mind that these matches are based on the sun sign and that every person has more planets in astrology which can affect how a relationship develops. For best results, consult a professional astrologer for a synastry (compatibility) chart.